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More copies of this ISBN:The Things between Us: A Memoirby Lee Montgomery
Synopses & ReviewsPublisher Comments:The Montgomerys of Framingham, Massachusetts, are among the last of a dying breed — New England WASPs who effortlessly combine repression, flamboyant eccentricity, and alcoholism. Fragmented by drink and dysfunction, the family had avoided assembling under one roof for more than a decade. But when Big Dad, the patriarch, was diagnosed with stomach cancer, the siblings all returned to their childhood home, Four Corner Farm, to help their parents navigate the specialists, treatment options, pain management, and, most difficult of all, their own anguish. The Things Between Us is Lee Montgomery's alternately wrenching and riotous story of her family reuniting as one of their own is dying. Even in healthy times, Big Dad moved carefully through life, taking responsibility for the farm, the cars, the house, and his wife. Meanwhile the irrepressible Mumzy drank her first gin each day at 8:45 a.m. and spent her time singing jazz standards and reliving the glory days when she rescued horses from the now defunct hunt club. Prickly and proud, the two tried always to keep their chins up. But Big Dad's cancer rattled their formidable denial, and their habitual coping mechanisms took on heightened meaning when he became sick and the family reconvened. In Big Dad's last months, Montgomery accompanied him on his daily walks as he bade farewell to the places where their lives had unfolded; she and her mother sang old songs, and eventually composed their own jazzy musical called If You're Dying of Cancer, Do You Want Us to Tell You? Montgomery's stunning memoir vividly evokes the often unspoken bonds between family members — bonds made of memory, love, and disappointment. Heartbreaking, lyrical, and often hilarious, The Things Between Us hums with a sense of wonder as the author discovers anew the most familiar people in her life, herself among them. Review:"In her bittersweet memoir of her father's death from metastatic stomach cancer, Montgomery (editor of Tin House magazine) charts the rough terrain of her eccentric New England family life and explores the trauma it took to reunite her dysfunctional family. Montgomery's mother is a falling-down drunk who has gin for breakfast; her gentleman farmer father, Big Dad, ignores his wife's alcoholism. The author's sister, Lael, and brother, Bob, are nine and six years her senior: Montgomery feels as if she grew up solo, in a different world than they. Escaping harsh realities is a family trait and none of the family has spent so much as a holiday together in more than a decade before Big Dad's news, when they all, reluctantly, come home. Montgomery skillfully shifts her narrative between the harrowing dailiness of her father's yearlong illness, her mother's escalating drunkenness, her own impending sense of loss and a damaging familial past she recalls with deeply mixed emotions. Montgomery's lyric and nuanced rendering of her love for her miscreant tribe has comic as well as tragic moments, but she steers clear of both sentimentality and New England stoicism, creating a tender portrait of modern death and real American families." Publishers Weekly (Copyright Reed Business Information, Inc.) Review:"Montgomery has a lovely, straightforward, trustworthy style....There's no pretense of offering some grand lesson, other than love: Love as best as you can for as long as you can. That's all." Los Angeles Times Review:"[T]ackles universal questions of love and loss without judgment or bitterness." Booklist Review:"Montgomery writes her memoir with precision and grace, showing how a parent's decline and ultimate death can unite a family and lead to self-discovery, forgiveness, and healing." Library Journal Review:"An immensely heartfelt book....What makes this memoir moving and memorable is that the love is firmly rooted in honesty, in a generous but still clear-sighted assessment of one family's struggles, alongside the closeness." Aimee Bender, author of Willful Creatures Review: "This is not just another memoir of alcoholism and family dysfunction....Lee Montgomery paints flawed and aching people with a touching and lovely palette." Anthony Swofford, author of Jarhead Review:"[P]erfectly captures a middle-aged rite of passage: returning home to help a parent die....[D]amn near perfect." Kirkus Reviews (Starred) Review:"Montgomery has wrung an engrossing book from her eccentric childhood and the journey of reconnection." O: The Oprah Magazine Review:"Lee Montgomery breathes new life into the dysfunctional family memoir with clean, vivid writing laced with a bitter bite." Variety Synopsis:Peopled by eccentrics and sparkling with humor and grace, Montgomery's memoir tracks her father's illness and death and her fragmented family's reunion.
About the AuthorLee Montgomery is the editorial director of Tin House Books and executive editor of Tin House, a literary magazine. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Story Magazine, Black Clock, Denver Quarterly, and The Iowa Review. She lives in Portland, Oregon. Table of ContentsContents Preface 1. Lunatics Framingham, Massachusetts 2. The Garden October 1998, Framingham, Massachusetts 3. Fury 1965, Framingham, Massachusetts 4. Wanderings October 1998, Framingham, Massachusetts 5. The Diagnosis October 1998, Boston, Massachusetts 6. Surgery November 1998, Boston, Massachusetts 7. Miracles Summer 1997, Framingham, Massachusetts 8. Recovery November 1998, Framingham, Massachusetts 9. Thanksgiving November 1998, Framingham, Massachusetts 10. Long Winter February 1999, Portland, Oregon 11. Chemotherapy March 1999, Framingham, Massachusetts 12. Escapes May 1999, Portland, Oregon 13. Love Story May 1999, Framingham, Massachusetts 14. Hands May 1999, Framingham, Massachusetts 15. Floating Memorial Day, 1999, Stevenson, Washington 16. Night June 7, 1999, Framingham, Massachusetts 17. Ends Tuesday, June8, 1999 18. Fireflies Tuesday, June 8, Framingham, Massachusetts
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