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My Pet Virus: The True Story of a Rebel Without a Cure

by Shawn Decker

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Synopses & Reviews

Publisher Comments:

Iwas destined for a life of medical drama from day one," begins this comic memoir with a mission. "I was born in the month of July, and my horoscope sign is a disease (Cancer). The symbol for Cancer? A crab (the sexually transmitted critter). Not only that, my parents named me Shawn Timothy Decker, which makes my initials S.T.D.

Shawn Decker isn't quite the All-American boy. Sure, he gets caught shoplifting copies of Penthouse; is crazy about prowrestling, especially "The Nature Boy" Ric Flair; and never has a problem getting dates. But he's also a hemophiliac who discovers, at age eleven, that he has contracted HIV from tainted blood products.

Instead of becoming self-pitying and dying (as first predicted), Shawn develops a twisted sense of humor, meets Depeche Mode through the Make-A-Wish Foundation, and writes on blogs and in Poz magazine about what it's like being hetero and HIV-positive in rural Virginia. He also turns to gay men for advice on dating women and, almost twenty years after getting HIV, marries Gwenn Barringer, who is HIV-negative and a former competitor for the title of Miss Virginia. Together Shawn and Gwenn travel the country, speaking to high school and college kids about how to live and love with HIV (and how to avoid getting it).

Review:

"Growing up in the small town of Waynesboro, Va., Decker was diagnosed with hemophilia at 18 months, and then in 1987, while in sixth grade, he found out that one of his many blood transfusions had infected him with HIV; the diagnosis of full-blown AIDS came 12 years later. His drug regimens and general ill-health made him unfit for an eight-hour workday, and finding a woman who was comfortable enough with his HIV status was less than easy. For the purposes of Decker's book, he's not interested in pity, preferring instead to take the offensive — usually with purposefully bad humor, referring to himself as either a 'thinblood' (for hemophiliac) or 'postoid' (for his positive status). It's a refreshing tactic, for Decker focuses more on what he's doing to move ahead in life than on how he's suffering. Decker's bravery is inarguably admirable, but it distances him; by book's end — when he has married a beauty queen, with whom he tours the country speaking about sex and HIV — we respect him but hardly feel as though we know him." Publishers Weekly (Copyright Reed Business Information, Inc.)

Synopsis:

In this comic memoir with a mission, Decker defines his life of medical drama as a hemophiliac who has contracted HIV from tainted blood products.

About the Author

Shawn Decker lives in Charlottesville, Virginia, with his wife, Gwenn.

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Shoshana, August 25, 2007 (view all comments by Shoshana)
Maybe I'm just turning into a horrible old woman, but I want to shake my fist at Mr. Decker and shriek, "Take care of yourself! People love you--stop your binge drinking before you kick up your hepatitis B and C!"

Decker is a hemophiliac ("thinblood" in his parlance) who acquired HIV, HBV, and HCV through clotting factor. On the one hand, I have no problem with the idea that the goal isn't to live as long as possible; on the other, I find myself angry when people deliberately harm themselves in life-threatening ways, whether they have HIV or not. Thus, I am not entertained when Decker recounts instances where he puts himself at grossly unnecessary risk. Instead of feeling affection for him, I want to keep myself distant from him. Maybe if I knew him I'd have a better sense of what he's actually like, and what it's like to interact with him. The lack of interaction contributes to my dislike of this persona.

It doesn't help that I don't share his sense of humor, so this humorous autobiography doesn't seem funny to me. I tell myself that the guy is in his early 30s and supports himself with edu-schtick about HIV. I tell myself that he has the right to influence his destiny to the extent that he can. I tell myself that there is other humor out here related to HIV and hepatitis that I do find funny. It's possible that I've just had too many friends and family members die of HIV and HCV to enjoy Decker's self-congratulatory descriptions of his youthful danger-seeking.

The narrative jumps around a bit and is somewhat confusing to follow as well as repetitive. This is an editor's job, not the author's, but doesn't help with my lack of empathy.

So decide for yourself whether I'm just a horrible buzz-killing shrew and Decker is da bomb; his website is www.mypetvirus.com and his blog is http://blogs.poz.com/shawn/.
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Jenn, May 30, 2007 (view all comments by Jenn)
Shawn Decker's memoir is laugh out loud funny. How he kept a sense of humor through his life is amazing. He was diagnosed as HIV positive when he was a child due to tainted blood products, kicked out of school because of his HIV status, but his mother fought to get him allowed to attend school. He was only expected to live two years, but he lived to graduate high school. He proves that what is thought to be impossible is always possible. As he calls her, his "wife partner" is not infected with the virus. They now are speakers to educate about HIV / AIDS. Decker's life is amazing is so many accounts, especially that he has kept such a good sense of humor through all he's experienced!
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Product Details

ISBN:
9781585425259
Subtitle:
The True Story of a Rebel Without a Cure
Author:
Decker, Shawn
Publisher:
Jeremy P. Tarcher
Subject:
General
Subject:
Virginia
Subject:
Hiv-positive persons
Subject:
Personal Memoirs
Subject:
Medical - General
Subject:
Medical
Subject:
Decker, Shawn
Subject:
Hemophiliacs - Virginia
Publication Date:
October 2006
Binding:
Paperback
Grade Level:
General/trade
Language:
English
Pages:
240
Dimensions:
7.20x5.10x.70 in. .45 lbs.

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