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Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sexby Gloria G. Brame
Synopses & Reviews
How do you tell your partner that you'd like to be spanked?
Where can you find a good dominatrix?
If your husband like to wear your panties, does that mean he's gay?
What really goes on at SM clubs?
After you tie someone up, what exactly are you supposed to do?
Is there such a thing as normal sex?
If you've ever wondered about the ins and outs of bondage, spanking, or cross-dressing, look no further. Come Hither is a frank, friendly guide on how to turn your secret fantasies into satisfying expressions of love and desire. The official resource guide for SM/fetish sex at the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, Come Hither proves that a little kink can be a lot of fun.
For everyone intrigued by the world of kinky sex: frank, friendly, expert advice on how to turn secret fantasies into positive, real-life expressions of love and desire.
About the Author
Dr. Gloria G. Brame is the lead author of Different Loving. A poet, journalist, and novelist, Brame has contributed articles to Cosmopolitan, Redbook, Working Woman, and Maxim. She can be contracted at http://gloria-brame.com.
Table of Contents
Kinky Confessional Basic Sexual Rights The Five Fallacies of Kinky Sex
What's Your Kink Quotient?
Know Thy Kinky Self The Kink Quotient Quiz
The Kink in All of Us
What's Normal? Are You Ready to Explore? "Ready...or Not?" Quiz Just Say Maybe Eight Talking Points on Kinky Sex When Your Partner Is Hostile: Dr. Brame's One-Question Wonder Quiz Four Steps to Kinky Romance Fluffy Stuff How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Whip How to Eroticize Anything Kink and God: The Spiritual Conflict
Kink and the Single Pervert Getting Kinky Ye Olde Subtle Hintes A Word About Timing Playing It Safe and Keeping It Consensual Where to Go, Who to Do Before Stepping Out: A Short Guide to Social Etiquette
Is Bondage Wrong? What Makes Bondage Sexy? The Five Top Reasons Why People Love Bondage Prisoners of Love The Five Top Captivity Fantasies Bondage Tips and Techniques Clamps, Cuffs, and Crosses: A Basic Guide to Bondage Toys Fifteen Ways to Tease Your Tied-Up Lover Bondage Nevers
How Can Anything That Hurts Be Good? Good Pain vs. Bad Pain How to Take Your Lover from Pain to Pleasure: Five Tips Can I Be Submissive If I Don't Like Pain? Safety, Safety, Safety and, in Case You Weren't Listening, Safety! Top Torture Toys and Techniques
What's a Fetish? A Fetish Is Alive! Fetish Tales A Catalogue of Fetishes
Role-Play and Lifestyle Relationships
Section One: Role-Play FAQ Section Two: Roundup of Roles and Role-Based Relationships
Transgenderism: The Second Self
What's in a Gender? Transvestite or Transsexual? Common Concerns of TVs and Some Advice Quick Questions from Partners of TVs The Three Big Headaches of Being a TV Tips on Teasing a TV
What Are Power Relationships? Should Parents in Lifestyle Power Relationships Keep Their Kinks Hidden from Their Kids? Is Coming Out to Your Relatives a Good Idea?
The View from the Top: Sexual Dominants
The Fictional Dominant vs. the Human Dominant A Note to Gay/Lesbian Readers Key Qualities of Great Dominants What's in a Name? Typing Your Topness Trust: The Key to Joyful Obedience Emotional Temperature-Taking Myths That Need to Go Away Three Flavors of Femdoms Female Dominance: Oxymoron or Redundancy? How to Punish a Masochist It's the Perks, Darling!: Five Cool Things About Being a Bitch for Female Dominants The Five Worst Things About Being a Heterosexual Male Dominant Psychological Dominance Six Easy Ways to Relax Your Submissive What's So Funny About Kinky Sex? A Few Tips to Spice Up Your Psychodrama It's the Perks, Darling!: Five Fun Things About Being a Bastard for Male Dominants
The View from the Bottom: Sexual Submissives
The Submissive Stigma Slave, Submissive, Masochist, or Bottom? If I'm a Slave, Do I Live in a Cage? Are You Being Abused? Public Etiquette for Submissives The Uncollared Sub Finding a Ringmaster in a World of Clowns Ten Stupid Things That Femsubs Do to Screw Up Their Lives Signs That the Dom Is Dangerous Sweet Services to Please a Dominant In Search of HER To See or Not to See (A Prodom)
Kinky Facts, Follies, and Fun
Reviewing the Rules Data to Digest Four Kinky Types to Watch Out For Twenty High-Culture Kink Classics Games Kinky Lovers Can Play: Twisted Torturous Trivia Quiz Kinky Reading List
Speaking the Kinky Lingo
A Glossary of Scene Slang
What Our Readers Are Saying
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