The Chemistry Between Us: Love, Sex, and the Science of Attraction

• Love can get such a grip on us because it is, literally, an addiction.
• To a woman falling in love, a man is like her baby.
• Why it’s false to say society makes gender, and how it’s possible to have the body of one gender and the brain of another.

• Why some people are more likely to cheat than others.
• Why we sometimes truly can’t resist temptation.

"Combine a first-class neuroscientist like Young, director of Emory University's Center for Translational Social Neuroscience, and an award-winning science journalist like Alexander, and the result is likely to be an engaging book about cutting edge science. They do a wonderful job of mixing and matching human studies with those of other animals to explain how chemicals influence and, at times, control behavior associated with sex, love, and longing. They document, for example, how minor genetic differences between meadow voles and prairie voles lead to striking differences in mating strategies. Prairie voles, like humans, form stable pair bonds, but, the authors note, significant 'extra-marital' vole sex regularly occurs — it just doesn't lead to 'divorce.' Although Young and Alexander take an exceedingly reductionistic view of human behavior, explaining how the addition of exogenous chemicals can decrease trust or increase both aggression and feelings of love, they are careful not to conclude that humans are without free will. The only drawback to this fine book is a certain glibness in the authors' attempts at humor. (Sept.)" Publishers Weekly Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.