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Queen Bees and Wannabes: Helping Your Daughter Survive Cliques, Gossip, Boyfriends, and Other Realities of Adolescence

by Rosalind Wiseman

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Publisher Comments:

The Basis for the Movie Mean Girls

PARENTS CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN GIRL WORLD

Do you feel as though your adolescent daughter exists in a different world, speaking a different language and living by different laws? She does.

This groundbreaking book takes you inside the secret world of girls’ friendships, translating and decoding them, so parents can better understand and help their daughters navigate through these crucial years. Rosalind Wiseman has spent more than a decade listening to thousands of girls talk about the powerful role cliques play in shaping what they wear and say, how they feel about school, how they respond to boys, and how they feel about themselves. In this candid and insightful book, Wiseman discusses:

• Queen Bees, Wannabes, Targets, Torn Bystanders, and others: how to tell what role your daughter plays and help her be herself

• Girls’ power plays, from birthday invitations to cafeteria seating arrangements and illicit parties, and how to handle them

• Good popularity and bad popularity: how cliques bear on every situation

• Hip Parents, Best-Friend Parents, Pushover Parents, and others: examine your own parenting style, “Check Your Baggage,” and identify how your own background and biases affect how you relate to your daughter

• Related movies, books, websites, and organizations: a carefully annotated resources section provides opportunities to follow up on your own and with your daughter

Enlivened with the voices of dozens of girls and parents and a welcome sense of humor, Queen Bees and Wannabes is compelling reading for parents and daughters alike. A conversation piece and a reference guide, it offers the tools you need to help your daughter feel empowered and make smarter choices.

Review:

"Wiseman's straightforward humor, sound advice and practical approach make this a must-read for anyone involved in the lives of teenage girls." Publishers Weekly

Review:

"[E]xcellent....[A]dmirable, groundbreaking insight into an all-too-common issue...[this book] will be invaluable to any adult struggling to help a girl get through her teens." Gillian Engberg, Booklist

Review:

"[A] must-have....The book is remarkably clear of jargon, making it totally accessible for any reader. The tone is conversational, the advice is direct, and the insights invaluable." Teri Lesesne, VOYA

Review:

"Who?s in? Who?s out? Who?s cool? Who?s not? Why is one girl elevated to royal status and another shunned? Queen Bees and Wannabes answers these unfathomable questions and so many more. Wiseman gives parents the insight, compassion, and skill needed to guide girls through the rocky terrain of the adolescent social world. This is such an honest and helpful book; we recommend it highly." Nina Shandler, author of Ophelia?s Mom and Sara Shandler, author of the bestselling Ophelia Speaks

Review:

"Laced with humor, insight, and practical suggestions, Queen Bees and Wannabes is the one volume that?s been missing from the growing shelf of girl-centered publications. Wiseman explains the inner workings of teen culture and teaches parents, educators, and peers how to respond." Whitney Ransome and Meg Miln Moulton, executive directors, National Coalition of Girls? Schools

Review:

"Rosalind Wiseman invites us into the 'Girl World' with insight, honesty, and humor. Based on the most thorough, helpful research I know of, this book should be required reading for parents, teachers, and health professionals." Edes P. Gilbert, acting president, Independent Educational Services

Review:

"Wise, humorous, life-affirming advice for parents that is utterly respectful of girls. I recommend parents mark it up, turn the corners of pages, and heed Wiseman?s creative and practical strategies for guiding girls along the sometimes treacherous pathways of growing up today. Queen Bees and Wannabes is Mapquest for parents of girls, from fifth grade all the way to young adulthood." Patricia Hersch, author of A Tribe Apart: A Journey into the Heart of American Adolescence

Review:

"Wiseman cuts through wishful parental thinking with a wonderful mixture of humor, facts, girls? voices, and a healthy dollop of reality. No, the harm cliques cause is not a natural fact of life. Wiseman gives us both hope and strategies to help our girls (and boys) build a more healthy, nurturing world for themselves." Joe Kelly, author, Dads and Daughters: How to Inspire, Understand and Support Your Daughter When She's Growing Up So Fast, executive director, Dads and Daughters

Synopsis:

Queen Bees and Wannabes has already generated a storm of publicity attention. Author Rosalind Wiseman, her book, and her work with adolescent girls have been profiled in a New York Times Magazine cover story as well as on The Oprah Show, Good Morning America, and CNN. Like Reviving Ophelia, the pioneering book in this genre, Queen Bees and Wannabes now stands to enjoy its greatest success in paperback.

Synopsis:

Includes bibliographical references (p. [319]-327) and index.

About the Author

ROSALIND WISEMAN is cofounder of the Empower program, a not-for-profit organization that works to empower girls and boys to stop violence. She is an advisor to Liz Claiborne’s Women’s Work program and has been featured on The Oprah Show and CNN and in publications such as USA Today, the Washington Post, and the New York Times. She lives in Washington, D.C.

From the Hardcover edition.

Table of Contents

  1. 1.Cliques and popularity
  2. 2.Passport from planet parent to girl world : communication and reconnaissance
  3. 3. Thebeauty pageant : who wants to be Miss Congeniality
  4. 4.Nasty girls : teasing, gossip, and reputations
  5. 5.Power plays : group dynamics and rites of passage
  6. 6.Boy world : the judges and the judged
  7. 7.Girls meets boy : crushes, matchmaking, and the birth of fruit cup girl
  8. 8.Pleasing boys, betraying girls : when relationships get more serious
  9. 9.Parties : sex, drugs, and rock 'n' roll
  10. 10.Getting help.

Product Details

ISBN:
9781400047925
Subtitle:
Helping Your Daughter Survive Cliques, Gossip, Boyfriends & Other Realities of Adolescence
Author:
Wiseman, Rosalind
Author:
Wiseman
Publisher:
Three Rivers Press (CA)
Location:
New York
Subject:
Teenage girls
Subject:
Parent and teenager
Subject:
Parenting - General
Subject:
Adolescence - General
Subject:
Life Stages - Adolescence
Subject:
Life Stages - Teenagers
Copyright:
Edition Number:
1st paperback ed.
Series Volume:
1840
Publication Date:
March 4, 2003
Binding:
Paperback
Language:
English
Illustrations:
Y
Pages:
352
Dimensions:
8.00x5.15x.76 in. .59 lbs.

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