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A Life's Work: On Becoming a Mother

by Rachel Cusk

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The experience of motherhood is an experience in contradiction. It is commonplace and it is impossible to imagine. It is prosaic and it is mysterious. It is at once banal, bizarre, compelling, tedious, comic, and catastrophic. To become a mother is to become the chief actor in a drama of human existence to which no one turns up. It is the process by which an ordinary life is transformed unseen into a story of strange and powerful passions, of love and servitude, of confinement and compassion.

In a book that is touching, hilarious, provocative, and profoundly insightful, novelist Rachel Cusk attempts to tell something of an old story set in a new era of sexual equality. Cusk’s account of a year of modern motherhood becomes many stories: a farewell to freedom, sleep, and time; a lesson in humility and hard work; a journey to the roots of love; a meditation on madness and mortality; and most of all a sentimental education in babies, books, toddler groups, bad advice, crying, breastfeeding, and never being alone.

Review:

"Cusk has written something fine and beautiful; the precision of her language and the depth of her insights lend such homey, unremarkable subjects as breastfeeding and engaging a babysitter an almost shocking newness. Motherhood is frequently a target for the broadest kind of humor, but although Cusk's book is sometimes very funny, she doesn't play for yucks, and this restraint brings a dignity to the subject and the experience that most of the other books lack....That A Life's Work seems not to be finding its audience is a pity; I can't imagine that anyone who is both a reader and a mother will be unmoved by it." Caitlin Flanagan, Atlantic Monthly (read the entire Atlantic review)

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"Clever novelists like these are using their art to disprove any notions of an evolutionary plug on a woman's ability to write and, at last, transforming their ghetto-world into a place where one can feel oneself think." Rachel Polonsky, Evening Standard (UK)

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"A powerful, often funny account of pregnancy, childbirth, and mothering that doesn't gloss over the pain, mystery, and confusion—but does celebrate the wonder....Mothers and prospective mothers will find the experience as told here daunting—as well as intact, true, and whole." Kirkus Reviews

Synopsis:

Taking an unsentimental approach to one of the most dramatic changes in a woman's life, British novelist Cusk ("The Country Life") dissects the process of new motherhood from a psychological and emotional perspective.

About the Author

Rachel Cusk is the author of three novels: Saving Agnes, which won the Whitbread First Novel Award, The Temporary, and The Country Life, which won a Somerset Maugham Award. A Life's Work is her first work of nonfiction.

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Cynthia Newberry Martin, January 25, 2009 (view all comments by Cynthia Newberry Martin)
A Life’s Work: On Becoming a Mother is Rachel Cusk’s fourth book. My favorite line, because of the unwritten premise, comes in the Introduction, where she writes, “…so it would be a contradiction to write a book about motherhood without explaining to some degree how I found the time to write it.”

The answer is that her partner quit his job to take care of the children “while Rachel writes her book about looking after the children.”

In the author’s words, this book “describes a period in which time seemed to go round in circles rather than in any chronological order.” Very quickly, the baby develops colic. Surely, Cusk writes, there is a better word for this, some sort of German word meaning lifegrief.

At the end of three months: “I see that she has become somebody. I realize, too, that the crying has stopped, that she has survived the first pain of existence and out of it wrought herself. And she has wrought me, too, because although I have not helped or understood, I have been there all along and this, I suddenly and certainly know, is motherhood; this mere sufficiency, this presence.”

My only quarrel with the memoir is that perhaps a better title would have been simply On Becoming a Mother, as these pages are limited to the initial weeks and months after the baby is born, to this transition time of becoming a mother, which the author so clearly does.

A book to read before you get pregnant, as well as afterwards (if you can stay awake long enough to read.) And don’t forget Anne Lamott’s, Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son’s First Year. Two books that speak the truth.

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Product Details

ISBN:
9780312311308
Subtitle:
On Becoming a Mother
Author:
Cusk, Rachel
Publisher:
Picador USA
Subject:
General
Subject:
Parenting
Subject:
Motherhood
Subject:
Parenting - General
Edition Description:
First
Publication Date:
March 2003
Binding:
Paperback
Language:
English
Pages:
228
Dimensions:
8.26x5.58x.52 in. .58 lbs.

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