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Bringing Up Bebe: One American Mother Discovers the Wisdom of French Parenting

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The secret behind France's astonishingly well-behaved children.

When American journalist Pamela Druckerman has a baby in Paris, she doesn't aspire to become a "French parent." French parenting isn't a known thing, like French fashion or French cheese. Even French parents themselves insist they aren't doing anything special.

Yet, the French children Druckerman knows sleep through the night at two or three months old while those of her American friends take a year or more. French kids eat well-rounded meals that are more likely to include braised leeks than chicken nuggets. And while her American friends spend their visits resolving spats between their kids, her French friends sip coffee while the kids play.

Motherhood itself is a whole different experience in France. There's no role model, as there is in America, for the harried new mom with no life of her own. French mothers assume that even good parents aren't at the constant service of their children and that there's no need to feel guilty about this. They have an easy, calm authority with their kids that Druckerman can only envy.

Of course, French parenting wouldn't be worth talking about if it produced robotic, joyless children. In fact, French kids are just as boisterous, curious, and creative as Americans. They're just far better behaved and more in command of themselves. While some American toddlers are getting Mandarin tutors and preliteracy training, French kids are — by design — toddling around and discovering the world at their own pace.

With a notebook stashed in her diaper bag, Druckerman — a former reporter for The Wall Street Journal — sets out to learn the secrets to raising a society of good little sleepers, gourmet eaters, and reasonably relaxed parents. She discovers that French parents are extremely strict about some things and strikingly permissive about others. And she realizes that to be a different kind of parent, you don't just need a different parenting philosophy. You need a very different view of what a child actually is. While finding her own firm non, Druckerman discovers that children — including her own — are capable of feats she'd never imagined.

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"Living in Paris has allowed American journalist Druckerman (Lust in Translation) a riveting glimpse into a calmer, rational, sage way of raising children. With three children of her own, all born in Paris and happily bilingual, Druckerman wanted to find the key to forging the well-behaved youngsters she witnessed in parks and restaurants — infants who sleep through the night at two months, children with table manners, who don't interrupt adults or eat between meals. It starts, apparently, with calm, sensible French mothers, who don't become enormously self-indulgent during pregnancy, but quickly lose the baby fat after birth and rarely breast feed. The French health system helps by its generous maternal and child-care policies. Babies are treated as rational creatures, expected to 'self-distract' in order to fall asleep (Druckerman calls the essential lapse in response time 'La Pause'), and wait to eat when everybody else has their meals, four times a day, including the 4 p.m. sweet time called le gouter. Instead of rushing to satisfy or stimulate a child á la Americain, the French are keen on aiding kids to discover on their own, developing autonomy with the help of a cadre, or frame, which is firm but flexible. Citing Rousseau, Piaget, and Françoise Dolto, as well as scores of other parents, Anglophone or French, Druckerman draws compelling social comparisons, some dubious (e.g., Frenchwomen, unlike Americans, don't expect their husbands to help much with housework, thus eliminating 'tension and resentment'), others helpful (insisting that children try new foods at each meal to broaden their palates), but she is ever engaging and lively to read." Publishers Weekly Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.

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“Marvelous....Like Julia Child, who translated the secrets of French cuisine, Druckerman has investigated and distilled the essentials of French child-rearing....Druckerman provides fascinating details about French sleep training, feeding schedules and family rituals. But her book's real pleasures spring from her funny, self-deprecating stories. Like the principles she examines, Druckerman isn't doctrinaire.” NPR

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Bringing Up Bébé is a must-read for parents who would like their children to eat more than white pasta and chicken fingers.” Fox News

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“On questions of how to live, the French never disappoint....Maybe it all starts with childhood. That is the conclusion that readers may draw from Bringing Up Bébé.” The Wall Street Journal

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“French women don't have little bags of emergency Cheerios spilling all over their Louis Vuitton handbags. They also, Druckerman notes, wear skinny jeans instead of sweatpants. The world arguably needs more kids who don't throw food.” Chicago Tribune

Review:

“I’ve been a parent now for more than eight years, and — confession — I’ve never actually made it all the way through a parenting book. But I found Bringing Up Bébé to be irresistible." Slate

Synopsis:

The runaway New York Times bestseller that shows American parents the secrets behind France's amazingly well-behaved children.

When American journalist Pamela Druckerman had a baby in Paris, she didn't aspire to become a "French parent." But she noticed that French children slept through the night by two or three months old. They ate braised leeks. They played by themselves while their parents sipped coffee. And yet French kids were still boisterous, curious, and creative. Why? How?

With a notebook stashed in her diaper bag, Druckerman set out to investigate — and wound up sparking a national debate on parenting. Researched over three years and written in her warm, funny voice, Bringing Up Bébé is deeply wise, charmingly told, and destined to become a classic resource for American parents.

About the Author

Pamela Druckerman is a former staff reporter for The Wall Street Journal, where she covered foreign affairs. She has also written for The New York Times, The Washington Post, and Marie Claire, and appeared on The Today Show and NPR's Morning Edition. Her previous book, Lust in Translation, was translated into eight languages. She has a master's degree in international affairs from Columbia. She lives in Paris.

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metalsusan, September 12, 2013 (view all comments by metalsusan)
If I was thinking about starting a family this is the book I would read. The author gives us a excellent picture of why French parenting practices work and how to use them. She makes it clear that she is an America living in France and talks about what that means for her family. I loved her frank way of speaking about her own life living in a country with a social health system, subsidized child care programs and babies who sleep through the night at 3 months.
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Sally Galbraith, January 30, 2013 (view all comments by Sally Galbraith)
Great book to read if you're expecting!
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rebeccalavelle, January 1, 2013 (view all comments by rebeccalavelle)
This is the best parenting book I have ever read! Great tips and a whole new perspective on being a parent. It's so good I have extra copies of this book to loan out to people
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Product Details

ISBN:
9781594203336
Author:
Druckerman, Pamela
Publisher:
Penguin Press
Subject:
Biography - General
Subject:
Child Care and Parenting-Mothering
Edition Description:
Paperback / softback
Publication Date:
20120231
Binding:
HARDCOVER
Grade Level:
from 12
Language:
English
Pages:
304
Dimensions:
8.25 x 5.5 in 1 lb
Age Level:
from 18

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"Publishers Weekly Review" by , "Living in Paris has allowed American journalist Druckerman (Lust in Translation) a riveting glimpse into a calmer, rational, sage way of raising children. With three children of her own, all born in Paris and happily bilingual, Druckerman wanted to find the key to forging the well-behaved youngsters she witnessed in parks and restaurants — infants who sleep through the night at two months, children with table manners, who don't interrupt adults or eat between meals. It starts, apparently, with calm, sensible French mothers, who don't become enormously self-indulgent during pregnancy, but quickly lose the baby fat after birth and rarely breast feed. The French health system helps by its generous maternal and child-care policies. Babies are treated as rational creatures, expected to 'self-distract' in order to fall asleep (Druckerman calls the essential lapse in response time 'La Pause'), and wait to eat when everybody else has their meals, four times a day, including the 4 p.m. sweet time called le gouter. Instead of rushing to satisfy or stimulate a child á la Americain, the French are keen on aiding kids to discover on their own, developing autonomy with the help of a cadre, or frame, which is firm but flexible. Citing Rousseau, Piaget, and Françoise Dolto, as well as scores of other parents, Anglophone or French, Druckerman draws compelling social comparisons, some dubious (e.g., Frenchwomen, unlike Americans, don't expect their husbands to help much with housework, thus eliminating 'tension and resentment'), others helpful (insisting that children try new foods at each meal to broaden their palates), but she is ever engaging and lively to read." Publishers Weekly Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.
"Review" by , “Marvelous....Like Julia Child, who translated the secrets of French cuisine, Druckerman has investigated and distilled the essentials of French child-rearing....Druckerman provides fascinating details about French sleep training, feeding schedules and family rituals. But her book's real pleasures spring from her funny, self-deprecating stories. Like the principles she examines, Druckerman isn't doctrinaire.”
"Review" by , Bringing Up Bébé is a must-read for parents who would like their children to eat more than white pasta and chicken fingers.”
"Review" by , “On questions of how to live, the French never disappoint....Maybe it all starts with childhood. That is the conclusion that readers may draw from Bringing Up Bébé.” The Wall Street Journal
"Review" by , “French women don't have little bags of emergency Cheerios spilling all over their Louis Vuitton handbags. They also, Druckerman notes, wear skinny jeans instead of sweatpants. The world arguably needs more kids who don't throw food.” Chicago Tribune
"Review" by , “I’ve been a parent now for more than eight years, and — confession — I’ve never actually made it all the way through a parenting book. But I found Bringing Up Bébé to be irresistible." Slate
"Synopsis" by , The runaway New York Times bestseller that shows American parents the secrets behind France's amazingly well-behaved children.

When American journalist Pamela Druckerman had a baby in Paris, she didn't aspire to become a "French parent." But she noticed that French children slept through the night by two or three months old. They ate braised leeks. They played by themselves while their parents sipped coffee. And yet French kids were still boisterous, curious, and creative. Why? How?

With a notebook stashed in her diaper bag, Druckerman set out to investigate — and wound up sparking a national debate on parenting. Researched over three years and written in her warm, funny voice, Bringing Up Bébé is deeply wise, charmingly told, and destined to become a classic resource for American parents.

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