How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do: Sex Advice from a Woman Who Knows

No one knows how to bring women's sexual fantasies to life better than Candida Royalle. After starring in twenty-five adult film classics, she moved behind the camera and launched her own groundbreaking line of woman-friendly erotic films. In this scintillating new book, the celebrated director, actor, and acclaimed pioneer of women's erotica shares her personal and professional expertise. Her message: every woman is an erotic woman. Her mission: to encourage confidence and creativity in lovemaking and to bring that sense of playfulness and adventure back into the bedroom.

In How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do, you'll find a blueprint for directing your own sex life. Packed with entertaining Director's Notes and tricks of the trade to inspire you, Royalle shows you how to strip yourself of inhibitions, break through bedroom taboos, and make your deepest fantasies come to life.

• Set the stage: Prepare any room for seduction by cueing the right music and setting only the most flattering lights.

• Bring in props: Is your toy box well stocked with the essentials and designed to inspire? It might be time for an upgrade.

• Wardrobe check: Use lingerie perfectly suited to your body type and transform yourself into the star of your own sizzling fantasy.

• Play the part: Conquer stage fright and learn how to deliver your hottest lines ever.

• Have the performance of your life: Fulfill your erotic potential and get the most out of your leading man.

Your relationship will never grow stale if you feed and replenish your erotic imagination. How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do will show you how to nurture your sexiest desires and star in the eroticrole of a lifetime.

Now go get that director's chair and get to work! Become your own scriptwriter, producer, director, and star!

No one knows how to bring women's sexual fantasies to life better than Candida Royalle. After starring in twenty-five adult film classics, she moved behind the camera to launch her own groundbreaking line of female-friendly erotic films. In How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do, Royalle shares her personal and professional expertise to help women realize their own sexual needs and fantasies — and bring confidence and creativity into their bedrooms.

In this book you'll find a blueprint for directing your own sex life. Packed with entertaining Director's Notes, Candida Close-Ups, and other tricks of the trade, Royalle shows you how to:

• Create Your Character: Great sex begins with knowing what you want and how to get it. Discover the private fantasies you long to fulfill.

• Set the Stage: Prepare any room for seduction using the most flattering lighting and music to set the mood.

• Bring in Props: The best sex toys for you and your lover.

• Dress the Part: Sexy costume suggestions, wardrobe do's and don'ts, and tips on how to select the best lingerie for your body type.

• Learn Your Lines: Conquer stage fright and tell him what turns you on!

• Have the Performance of Your Life: Fulfill your erotic potential and get the most out of your leading man.

...and other behind-the-scenes advice for stripping yourself of inhibitions, nurturing your sexiest desires, and transforming yourself into the star of your own sizzling fantasy!

Sex expert Candida Royalle shows women how to liberate their sexual desires, heighten their sensuality, and ignite their romantic relationships.

Best known for her internationally acclaimed line of erotic films from a female perspective, Candida Royalle is the creator and director of Femme Productions, Inc. A much sought after speaker on female sexuality, Candida has been at the forefront of women's sexual expression and has lectured at professional conferences including the American Psychiatric Association; the Smithsonian Institution; the World Congress of Sexology; and the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (of which she is a member). She has also addressed several sexuality conferences and universities including Princeton, Columbia, Wellesley College, and New York University and has been featured in The New York Times and in magazines such as Time, Glamour, and Marie Claire. Her latest film, Stud Hunters, spoofs the adult industry, its fans, the media, and Royalle herself. She lives in New York.

Contents

Introduction

Phase One Research

Chapter 1 Undress Your Mind

Chapter 2 The Script

Chapter 3 Studying the Masters

Phase Two Preproduction

Chapter 4 Music and Lighting

Chapter 5 Sex on Location

Chapter 6 Your Wardrobe

Chapter 7 Prepping Your Equipment

Chapter 8 The Boudoir Ritual

Phase Three The Shoot, or Action!

Chapter 9 Rehearse Your Lines

Chapter 10 The Grand Finale

Phase Four Postproduction

Chapter 11 Flashbacks

Acknowledgments

Resources

Index