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When Friendship Hurts: How to Deal with Friends Who Betray, Abandon, or Wound You

by Jan Yager

When Friendship Hurts: How to Deal with Friends Who Betray, Abandon, or Wound You Cover

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Publisher Comments:

"HOW COULD YOU DO THAT TO ME?"

We've all had friendships that have gone bad. Whether it takes the form of a simple yet inexplicable estrangement or a devastating betrayal, a failed friendship can make your life miserable, threaten your success at work or school, and even undermine your romantic relationships.

Finally there is help. In When Friendship Hurts, Jan Yager, recognized internationally as a leading expert on friendship, explores what causes friendships to falter and explains how to mend them — or end them. In this straightforward, illuminating book filled with dozens of quizzes and real-life examples, Yager covers all the bases, including:

The twenty-one types of negative friends — a rogues' gallery featuring such familiar types as the Blood-sucker, the Fault-finder, the Promise Breaker, and the Copycat

How to recognize destructive friends as well as how to find ideal ones

The e-mail effect — how electronic communication has changed friendships for both the better and the worse

The misuse of friendship at work — how to deal with a co-worker's lies, deceit, or attempts at revenge

How to stop obsessing about a failed friendship

And much more

The first highly prescriptive book to focus on the complexities of friendship, When Friendship Hurts demonstrates how, why, and when to let go of bad friends and how to develop the positive friendships that enrich our lives on every level. For everyone who has ever wondered about friends who betray, hurt, or reject them, this authoritative book provides invaluable insights and advice to resolve the problem once and for all.

About the Author

Jan Yager, Ph.D., is a sociologist and the author of Friendshifts®: The Power of Friendship and How It Shapes Our Lives. Recognized as the number one expert on friendship in the country, she has been seen and heard on Oprah, The View, The O'Reilly Factor, and NPR, as well as on numerous other national television and radio programs. She lives in Fairfield County, Connecticut.

Table of Contents

Contents

Introduction: When Friendship Turns Unfriendly

Part 1 Friendship: The Basics

1 What Is a Friend?

2 Detecting Harmful People Before They're Friends

Part 2 Why Do Friends Hurt Friends?

3 What's Really Going On?

4 It's All in the Family

Part 3 Coping

5 Can This Friendship Be Saved?

6 When and How to End It

Part 4 Business, Work, and Friends

7 Friendship at Work: Are the Rules Different?

Part 5 Breaking the Pattern

8 Finding Good Friends

9 Where to Go from Here

Notes

Selected Bibliography

Resources

Index

Reading Group Guide for When Friendship Hurts

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Beverly Solomon, December 21, 2008 (view all comments by Beverly Solomon)
In this book, Dr. Jan Yager carefully guides you through the many stages of friendship that are so necessary for a healthy and balanced life. She explains friendships of every sort, from the casual acquaintance to the coveted best friend for life. She also tells you how to cultivate and maintain these precious relationships but most important, how to avoid the pseudo-friendship that could become toxic to your life. This book should be a basic in your library along with a good cookbook and an etiquette book.
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Product Details

ISBN:
9780743211451
Subtitle:
How to Deal with Friends Who Betray, Abandon, or Wound You
Author:
Yager, Jan
Publisher:
Fireside Books
Location:
New York
Subject:
General
Subject:
Friendship
Subject:
Conflict Resolution
Subject:
Interpersonal conflict
Subject:
General Psychology & Psychiatry
Subject:
General Self-Help
Copyright:
Edition Description:
B102
Series Volume:
107-354
Publication Date:
July 2002
Binding:
Paperback
Grade Level:
General/trade
Language:
English
Pages:
240
Dimensions:
8.52x5.68x.59 in. .50 lbs.

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