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At Weddings and Wakesby Alice McDermott
Reading Group Guide
1. Alice McDermotts prose has been praised for the sheer precision of its imagery, such as the subway journey in the opening sequence that recalls long-gone wicker seats and tokens embossed with a figure reminiscent of a peace sign. Did the book inspire vivid memories of your own past? Which precise images evoke long-lost worlds?
2. What is the effect of the childrens point of view in At Weddings and Wakes? What matters to children versus to adults? What do Lucys children comprehend better than the grown-ups do?
3. What does Momma teach her stepdaughters about the role of women in the world? What did it take to be considered a successful woman among other women of her generation?
4. What do the scenes of Catholic school, such as Margarets bringing cemetery flowers to Sister Joan, indicate about a young childs needs in the classroom? What were Sister Miriam Josephs aspirations in becoming a nun? Do those dreams seem fulfilled by her work as a teacher?
5. In what way did the two settingssuburbia and cityserve as a metaphor for other divisions within the novel? Would you have sided with the characters who decried the new suburbs? How does Lucys suburban life compare to her Brooklyn home?
6. How does Lucys husband cope with his memories of serving as a soldier in Europe? How did he reconcile the terror of the German pilot with the difficulties of civilian life after the war?
7. What traits does Fred share with May? In what way do their family experiences give them a means for understanding one another?
8. How did Momma adapt to her role as stepparent? How does her approach to parenting compare to Lucys?
9. How would you characterize the interactions of Bobby, Margaret, and Maryanne? How do these siblings grow and change throughout the novel, particularly as spring sets in and Margaret embarks on an early-morning Lenten ritual with Bobby?
10. Who has the happiest relationships in the novel? Is fate or temperament the bigger factor in whether the characters experience bitterness?
11. The books title is referred to when Rosemary asks, “Arent you glad that you only have to see your relatives at weddings and wakes?” What determines which relatives we remain close to, and which ones we scorn or avoid? To what extent is allegiance or estrangement permanent across generations?
12. We are told that Veronica was named “for the saint who the nuns said was without vanity, who touched the bloodied face of Christ with her veil.” Did Veronica fulfill the legacy of her namesake?
13. What accounts for Agness approach to living? Is she simply materialistic, or does she see herself as upholding a necessary standard? Did she and May have an advantage, having known their parents for an albeit brief span of time in their childhood?
14. What led May from the convent to the secular world, and ultimately to marriage? Was she a better candidate for marriage than her sisters were?
15. What distinguishes the family depicted in this novel from others appearing in Alice McDermotts work? In what way does At Weddings and Wakes add new facets of love and fate to her storytelling?
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