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The Monk Downstairs: A Novel
Reading Group Guide
1. Michael Christopher initially tells Rebecca that he left the monastery because he ?had a fight with his abbot.? Why do you feel he really left the monastery? What was he looking for? What did he find?
2. When the story opens, Rebecca has reached a point in her relationship with Bob Schofield where he feels emboldened to propose marriage. In refusing him, she realizes that she has been tempted to ?settle,? to compromise her longing for deep love and intimacy, for the sake of security and simple companionship. Her friend Bonnie suggests that she might be holding out for ?the fairy tale thing,? while her mother, who has known a fulfilling marriage, tells her briskly that ?there?s no need to settle for mediocrity.? What do you think? What is the balance between realistic compromise in intimacy and the longing for ?a marriage of true minds??
3. In his first letter to Brother James, Michael Christopher says, ?There is a prayer that is simply seeing through yourself, seeing your own nothingness, the emptiness impervious to self-assertion. A prayer that is the end of the rope. A helplessness, fathomless and terrifying.? Is this an aspect of spirituality you can relate to? What is the difference, if any, between a dark night of the soul and mere depression or despair?
4. What is Rebecca?s view of God at the beginning of the novel? What is her view of love? How do these evolve through the course of the story?
5. Mother-daughter relationships are central to the novel. Compare and contrast Rebecca?s relationship with Phoebe, her mother, and with her own daughter Mary Martha. What sides of her does each relationship bring out? What kinds of love does each bring into play? What kinds of frustration?
6. What are the crucial points at which Rebecca and Michael Christopher are able to move closer? At what points do they fail to move toward intimacy, and instead move away? Why?
7. Michael Christopher?s troubled relationship to his former abbot, Fr. Hackley, has obviously been central to his religious life, and his struggle to comes to terms with it continues to be so even after he leaves the monastery. What is your sense of what the real issues were between the two men? How does the evolution of Christopher?s understanding of his former abbot reflect his own spiritual development throughout the book?
8. Similar to Michael Christopher?s need to make some peace with Abbot Hackley and what he represents, is Rebecca?s challenge in coming to terms with her ex-husband, Rory. What is your understanding of the history between the two? How has the relationship affected Rebecca?s view of love? How do the changes in Rebecca?s attitude toward ex-husband reflect her own development throughout the book?
9. Rebecca is ambivalent about her job throughout much of the novel. Like her longing for true intimacy, her craving for a fulfilling career is in delicate and conflicted balance with her sense of what is realistic. In what ways does her work at Utopian Images fulfill her and exercise her real gifts? In what ways does it stifle her? How realistic is it to hope for a career that is more than a tedious way to pay the rent?
10. St. Augustine defined a sacrament as ?an outward and visible sign of an inward and spiritual grace.? There are at least two examples in the novel of unorthodox ?sacraments:? the baptism of Sherilous?s baby at Stinson Beach, and Michael?s Christopher?s administration of last rites to Phoebe in the hospital. What is your sense of the spiritual ?validity? of these impromptu rituals? What is a true sacrament?
11. Michael Christopher says, ?We don?t hear much of the danger of prayer, but it is the deepest sea and I believe there are many who are lost en route.? What is your sense of the sea of prayer and its hazards? Is it really possible to be lost?
12. In their conversation in the kitchen in Chapter 5, Michael Christopher tells Rebecca the story of the failed love that propelled him into the monastery. How much of his commitment to the religious life do you think was a positive longing for God, and how much was simple flight from the challenges of intimacy and work in the real world? Is a true monastic vocation possible?
13. On the morning after their first night together, Rebecca and Michael Christopher run aground on his reluctance to let their relationship pass into a more public knowledge. What is your reading of the situation, and of Christopher?s conflictedness? Do you think Rebecca overreacts?
14. In one of his letters to brother James, Michael Christopher describes God as ?an unfathomable darkness,? and the peace of God?s presence as a perfect silence and ?a kind of nowhere.? How does a radical unknowing like this differ from atheism? In theological terms, Christopher?s spirituality could be characterized as a via negativa or ?apophatic? approach to God, a focus on God?s ultimate unknowability, in contrast to the more familiar kataphatic path in which God is known and loved through an emphasis on divine attributes such as love, mercy, and justice. What is the place of a dark night spirituality such as Christopher?s? Is it compatible with life in ?the world?? Wouldn?t it be better if he just, like, lightened up a little?
15. How does her mother?s crisis affect Rebecca? How does it affect Mike? How does it change their relationship?
16. Do you think Rory is really ready to change, after the judge lets him off the hook? Does his relationship with Chelsea have a chance to succeed?
17. One of the book?s central themes is stated in the contrast between the active Martha and the devotional Mary in the book epigraph from Luke 10. Discuss your own sense of the balance between the life of busy service and the contemplative life, and how the theme plays out in the novel.
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