China Traveler, January 9, 2010 (view all comments by China Traveler)
Mysterious, unfathomable China exists as much in the 20th century as in the distant past. Menstruation police, mandatory exercise at sunrise, dormitory living for single men and women, food deprivations, forced labor, and travel restrictions distinguish post-Mao China. But according to Jin Ha, perhaps worst of all is the state's involvement in personal relationships and the emotional hardship that ensues. Waiting can extinguish even the most ardent love between soul mates, turning joy into lifeless lassitude and youthful pleasure into middle-aged bitterness. Just as easily, it can also re-affirm an attachment to a loveless love, making the emotional sterility of not-loving seem the better alternative.
Was this comment helpful? | Yes | No (1 of 2 readers found this comment helpful)
Powell's City of Books is an independent bookstore in Portland, Oregon, that fills a whole city block with more than a million new, used, and out of print books. Shop those shelves — plus literally millions more books, DVDs, and gifts — here at Powells.com.