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1. Discuss the sibling relationships in the novel.  To what extent have Noelle’s decisions been shaped by being Clarissa and Lily’s sister?

2. When Marilyn announces that she and David are separating, Clarissa, Lily, and Noelle are thrown into shock.  Is separation/divorce different for children when they’re adults than when they’re younger?

3. Marilyn won’t let David tell the girls their news before everyone gets up to the Berkshires.  Do you agree with this decision not to tell the family in advance?

4. “It’s been the hardest year of Thisbe’s life, yet it’s different for her.  Marilyn and David were Leo’s parents.”  What does the novel mean by this?  In what ways is it different to lose a son than to lose a husband?

5. Marilyn thinks, “Mothers and daughters-in-law:  such volatile, loaded relationships.” Is there something about Marilyn and Thisbe that makes it hard for them to be close?  Is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law inherently volatile?

6. Clarissa’s infertility plays a central role in the book.  Originally, it was Nathaniel who wanted to have children and Clarissa didn’t, but now that they’re having trouble conceiving Clarissa seems more upset than Nathaniel is.  Does this have to do with Leo’s death?  Is infertility always harder for the woman than for the man?

7. Lily and Noelle have a particularly difficult relationship.  Why is this?  How do sibling relationships change as people get older? Are some siblings simply not meant to get along?

8. Marilyn and David bought kosher food and a new set of dishes so Noelle could eat in their home, but Noelle still won’t eat there.  Do you agree with Noelle’s decision?  In a conflict between loyalty to one’s family and loyalty to one’s beliefs, what should win out?

9. There are some very high-powered people in this novel.  Nathaniel has two PhDs and may someday win the Nobel Prize.  Lily clerked on the Supreme Court.  Malcolm is a chef featured in magazines.  Marilyn is a successful doctor.  Amram and Noelle, by contrast, struggle professionally.  To what extent do the characters in this book define their own success in comparison with the success of their siblings and parents?

10. Thisbe says to Lily, “Everyone who knew us says Leo and I were great together.  There’s no love like the love that’s been erased.”  Were Leo and Thisbe great together?  How reliable is memory when someone has died?  Do you think Thisbe and Leo would have worked things out if he had come home from Iraq?

11. Most of the major characters in the novel are female, yet the author is male.  Does that influence the way you read this novel?  Is it different for a male writer to write from the perspective of a woman?

12. Like the journalist Daniel Pearl, Leo was captured in the Middle East and executed by terrorists.  More recently, a number of prominent journalists have died in the Middle East.  The specter of the Iraq War hovers over this novel, and the book is populated by characters who have strong, often opposing political opinions.  Yet the book takes place in the bucolic Berkshires, far from the center of the conflict.  Would you describe this as a political novel?

13. Although Lily and Malcolm aren’t married, they live together and have been a couple for ten years.  Why does Lily refuse to let Malcolm come to the Berkshires for Leo’s memorial?  Does it say something about their relationship?  About Lily herself?

14. Noelle thanks her father for being “the voice that understands there are things you can’t know.”  What does she mean by that?  What makes David such a likable character?

15. Amram, by contrast, is a more difficult human being.  What do you think attracted Noelle to him?  What attracted Amram to Noelle?  The novel says that Thisbe “understands Amram’s appeal.  He has a kind of bullying charisma.”  Do you find Amram likable?

16. “Judaism, Lily likes to say:  just another installment in the random life of Noelle Glucksman.” Later, Noelle tells Thisbe that it was random that she ended up in Israel and that she could just as easily have landed in Sweden.  What role do randomness and coincidence play in Noelle’s life?  In the lives of the other characters?

17. Thisbe thinks:  “Everyone wants to know about the milestones—Leo’s birthday, their anniversary—and those are hard, of course, but it’s the everyday things that are the toughest.” What does Thisbe mean by that?  Do you agree with her observation?

18. Gretchen’s wealth plays a role in this novel, and the family all responds to it differently. Discuss the role of money in the novel in general.

19. The book says that David “mourns for Leo no less than Marilyn does even if he isn’t bellowing it into bullhorns . . . In a way he thinks his response is more dignified.”  Is David’s response more dignified?  Are there better and worse ways to mourn?

20. When Amram finally returns after having been gone for two days, Noelle is livid.  Later, she hits Amram in the eye with a tennis ball, and Amram accuses her of having done so intentionally.  Do you think Noelle hit him intentionally?  Whom do you sympathize with in this scene?

21. At the book’s end, where do you think the various characters will be in ten years?

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W S Krauss, September 14, 2013 (view all comments by W S Krauss)
This novel got good reviews. I think I liked the idea of the book more than the actual book itself. The story and setting were good ones. A family is meeting in Massachusetts for the one year memorial of the death of Leo, a journalist in his early thirties that died in Iraq. At their summer house, Leo's mother and father, his widow and his three sisters arrive, along with the husbands of two of the sisters and several children. Each character's relationship with one another is teased out and Leo's character is developed through the eyes of these family members. We see how the family is coping with Leo's death and to the unraveling of relationships within the family. Some of the characters are not well developed, such as the mother, father and one of the sisters. The idea is that when a family is struck with a huge blow such as a death, the members of the family each deal with it in their own way. Adjustments occur, not always for the better. They must learn to carry on in the world without the person who has died. The crux of the story is that changes occur in these characters and the event of the memorial serves to unveil a new balance in the way they relate to one another. While I admire the approach to the story, I didn't really like these characters very much and so did not feel much affinity to them. Without affection for the characters, I found myself not caring much how it turned out. And while it did have a hopeful ending, I wished the author had made me feel more emotion about it.
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thenovelenthusiast, August 2, 2012 (view all comments by thenovelenthusiast)
Recovering from the loss of a loved one is not something that can happen overnight-it can’t even be done within a year. The healing process is a long and, in many cases, a bitter ride. This is the sentiment throughout Joshua Henkin’s brilliant novel The World Without You. Leo Frankel, a journalist covering the war, is killed a year before the novel begins, but within the first few pages, I’ll bet that most readers will miss him. His family certainly does. His parent’s marriage is falling apart. They’ve lost themselves. Every conversation is about blame and faults. They’ve taken up new hobbies so they don’t have to talk to one another. Talking will only bring up Leo, and they aren’t ready for that yet. The possible answer to a resolution is in Leo’s memorial service. When Leo’s three sisters and his widow arrive for the weekend tribute, the Frankel’s expose everything. By the novel’s end, Henkin’s characters become beautifully realized, dealing with senses of anger, betrayal, resentment-and, finally, finding an ounce of acceptance.
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Craig Ensz, July 24, 2012 (view all comments by Craig Ensz)
Loss is never acceptable nor completely understandable. Henkin tries with a story of a family devastated by loss. I read the book to help me understand my loss. There is no answer, just someone elses attempts.
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"Publishers Weekly Review" by , "Like a more bittersweet version of Jonathan Tropper's This Is Where I Leave You or a less chilly variation on Jonathan Franzen's The Corrections, Henkin (Matrimony) tenderly explores family dynamics in this novel about the ties that bind, and even lacerate. One year after the death of their kidnapped journalist son, Leo, in Iraq, David and Marilyn Frankel, non-practicing Jews, call their entire mishpocha to their summer home in the Berkshires to attend his memorial service: Clarissa and her husband, Nathaniel, who, after years of putting off parenthood, are having a difficult time getting pregnant; Lily, a D.C. lawyer who shows up without Malcolm, her restaurateur boyfriend of 10 years; Noelle, an Orthodox Jew who arrives from Jerusalem with her husband, Amram, and their four children; and Thisbe, Leo's widow, a grad student who flies in from Berkeley with their three-year-old son, Calder. Over the course of the Fourth of July holiday, David and Marilyn will make a stunning announcement; Thisbe will reveal a secret; a game of Celebrity will cause Amram to drive off into the night; Leo will be remembered; and someone will pee on the carpet. The author has created an empathetic cast of characters that the reader will love spending time with, even as they behave like fools and hurt one another. An intelligently written novel that works as a summer read and for any other time of the year. Agent: Lisa Bankoff, ICM." Publishers Weekly (Starred Review) Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.
"Review" by , "Ever since reading, and loving, Joshua Henkin's beautiful novel, Matrimony, I've been waiting for his next one — and now, at last, here it is. I know I'm not the only reader eager to sink into The World without You. It's no secret that Henkin is a writer of voluminous heart, humanity, and talent."
"Review" by , "A keen observer of American life, Joshua Henkin imbues The World without You with wisdom, humor, and a clear sense of history. By mapping out the familiar and the strange, the changed and unchanged, territories of contemporary life, this book is a triumph and an important novel about America."
"Review" by , "The World without You is an immeasurably moving masterpiece that tracks the intricate threads connecting children to parents, sisters to brothers, wives to husbands. To say I 'cared' about these characters would be to hugely understate their consuming effect on me. Like all loving — and complicated, and generous — families, they extended a thread to me. I too, was connected. I lived in their midst, I learned from them, and their poignant struggles continued to affect me long after I read the final page."
"Review" by , "The World without You is marvelous on the solitudes that exist even within the strongest and most compassionate of families, and I love the relentlessness with which it reminds us that our politics will reach its wrecking ball into the lives of even those of us who are most comfortable." Jim Shepard, author of
"Review" by , "This book is witty and wise, poignant and heartfelt. The 4th of July will never be the same for me, nor for my fellow Americans. I can't imagine a world without Joshua Henkin."
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