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The Worst Day of My Life, So Far (Harvest Book)


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Q> Why do you think this novel was written from a single point of view? Is such close focus on Jeanne effective or claustrophobic? Is it valid for her to relate the experiences and states of mind of other characters-Larry, Rocky, Velma-even though she admits she can't know for sure what they are thinking? Q> How likely is it that the adolescent resentment she felt for her mother in the past colors everything she says about Velma now? Did that resentment stem only from envy? What other things has Jeanne held against her mother? What does she hold against her father? Q> Are Jeanne's ferocious witticisms a weapon against others, or a coping mechanism? Are anyone else's feelings ever hurt by them? How complicit does the reader become, reading her thoughts? Does she ever carry us across that line? What does this say about her mental health? Q> Can Jeanne be as ugly as she feels herself to be? Why is physical beauty such an issue with her? What other kinds of beauty are touched on in this novel, and why are they relevant? Q> Despite the eventual failure of her marriage, is Larry a good match for Jeanne? Is the friendship that springs up between his mother and Jeanne genuine, or does it seem superficial? If her own parents' marriage had not been such a fairytale romance, would Jeanne be a better wife to Larry, or an even less suitable one? Q> What role does their father, C. Ray, play in this family? How accurate can Jeanne's perceptions of him be? Has he left his childhood home and family behind in South Carolina because he wanted to escape them, or rather because he was pursuing something? Q> In how objective a light is C. Ray able to see his daughter Jeanne? How clearly does Velma see her? Does Jeanne genuinely want to be understood? Q> What, besides Jeanne's diary, are symbols of memory in this novel? What significance is there in the repetition of color-Rocky's red cowboy hat, Velma's red lipstick and nail polish, C. Ray's red hair? How does color relate to memory? Are there correlations between the fading of both? Q> When is memory loss presented as a positive thing in Jeanne's narration? What similarities are there between memory loss and forgiveness? Is Jeanne capable of true forgiveness? Do you think she ever forgives the rapist? Q> Jeanne notes that her sister-in-law, Barbara, pursues her own happiness above all else, but has Barbara ever been happy? Who is the happiest character in the novel? Does the author present happiness as something that can be consciously sought and won? Q> Who suffers the most from Velma's Alzheimer's disease during its earliest stages? Does C. Ray recognize it for what it is? Why can't he be more specific with his children about his fears? Is he protecting Rocky's marriage, or is he merely in denial? Does Jeanne attribute to C. Ray the same heroism she'd like to be able to claim for herself? How accurate is the narrative's definition of heroism? Q> How easy is it to empathize with Velma as her disease progresses, given that a later-stage Alzheimer's patient can't communicate? Jeanne tries to make it possible for us to "get inside" her mother's head, but how successful is she? Does she attempt to use any of that empathy in her own dealings with Velma? Is she truly giving the situation all she has, or is she holding something back? Q> Alzheimer's disease frequently touches off explosions of suspicion and resentment among members of the family members. Why hasn't that happened between Jeanne and Rocky? Knowing what we know about them, is their good relationship likely to be maintained after the events of the novel's final chapters, or will it suffer? Q> How does Jeanne's memory of the way she herself was parented influence the raising of her own son, Conrad? It appears to take her longer to understand Conrad than it takes for her to understand anybody else in her life. Is this an inability on her part, or denial? Is Conrad the only person she has failed to understand? What about Velma? Do you think Jeanne has ever really understood her mother, even by the novel's end? Q> When Jeanne says that love isn't always a noun, that sometimes it's really a verb, what does she mean? Jeanne describes herself as cold. Does this mean she's incapable of love in its emotional, "noun" sense? Q> What do you think happens to Jeanne and Velma immediately after the fire? What will happen to them in a week's time? In a month? A year? Does thinking about a likely ending make the beginning of the novel more significant or less so?

Copyright (c) 2002. Published by Harcourt, Inc. Discussion questions were prepared by the M.A. Harper.

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Ann Haynes, September 1, 2011 (view all comments by Ann Haynes)
"The Worst Day of My Life So Far" by M.A. Harper is written in the first person by a middle aged woman caring for her mother, a former southern belle type who is gradually succumbing to Alzheimer's. Along with that, the daughter is dealing with her own mid-life crises while feeling isolated and stir crazy in the tiny Lousianna town where she grew up. What I loved about this book was the humor the narrator was able to bring to the situation, definitely of the gallows variety, while never sacrificing depth or respect for each character. This is not an easy subject, and never does Harper shy away from it. Her once beautiful mother is reduced to dependancy, and Harper never belittles her for it, even in the worst moments of dementia. And the ending delivers both drama and closure, aka acceptance. I had a hard time putting this one down.
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Harper, M. A.
Mariner Books
Harper, M. A.
San Diego
Mothers and daughters
Southern states
Alzheimer's disease
Domestic fiction
General Fiction
General Fiction
Literature-A to Z
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1st Harvest ed.
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Trade Paper
Harvest Book
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8 x 5.31 in 0.59 lb

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"Actually, there were no men in Auletta except the married, the stupid, and the dead. In Auletta this worked out to be basically the same thing."

Welcome to Auletta, Louisiana, where the typical bumper sticker reads: God, Guns and Guts Made This Country Great. Unfortunately for Jeanne Roth, a middle-aged woman with no taste for backwater towns, Auletta becomes her home when she makes good on a promise to her father to care for her mother. When Jeanne learns that her mother has Alzheimer's, she must confront a past bursting with memories of her mama, a once vibrant femme fatale. As she watches mama's grace and charm slowly slip away, Jeanne is forced to reflect on her own goals and find a new hero to look up to. And suddenly Jeanne, an expert at analyzing others while neglecting her own troubles, is squaring off directly with the one person she has tried to avoid: herself.

A poignant, often hilarious, story of one woman's journey toward self-discovery and confidence, this is a timely tale that shows there are no dead ends in life-only long roads.

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