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Trans-Sister Radio


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I was eight when my parents separated, and nine when they actually divorced. That means that for a little more than a decade, I've watched my mom get ready for dates. Sometimes, until I started ninth grade, I'd even keep her company on Saturday afternoons, while she'd take these long, luxurious bubble baths. I'd put the lid down on the toilet and sit there, and we'd talk about school or boys or the guy she was dating.

I stopped joining her in the bathroom in ninth grade for a lot of reasons, but mostly because it had started to seem a little weird to me to be hanging out with her when I was fourteen and she was naked.

But she has always been pretty cool about bodies and sex, and for all I know, she wouldn't mind my joining her in the bathroom even now when I'm home from college. For better or worse--and usually for better--my mom has always been very comfortable with subjects that give most parents the shivers. A couple of days before my fifteenth birthday, she took me to the gynecologist to get me fitted for a diaphragm, and told me where in her bedroom she kept the spermicidally lubricated condoms. (Of course, I already knew: God, by then I even knew where she'd hidden a vibrator.)

I hadn't had sex yet, and my mom made it clear that she didn't want me to in the foreseeable future. But she had a pretty good memory of the hormonal chaos that hits a person in high school, and she wanted to do all that she could for my sake to ensure that she wouldn't become a grandmother any sooner than necessary.

When I think back on it, my parents' divorce was very civilized. At least it has always seemed that way to me, though it's clear there are things I don't know.

The way my mom tells it, I was in second or third grade when they realized they just didn't love each other anymore the way they had when they were first married. They'd worked together at the radio station then, and they'd shared everything. My mom insists they both came to the realization at about the same time that they should separate: My mom was thirty-two and my dad was thirty-three, and they figured they were still young enough to hook up with someone who, in the long years ahead, could keep their motors humming the way they were meant to.

Sometimes my dad hints that it wasn't quite so mutual. Most of the time he toes their party line, but every so often I'll get the impression that when he moved out, he was figuring they'd both change their minds and reconcile in a couple of weeks. I think he might have thought he was just being cool.

Once when he was visiting my mom, I overheard him telling her that he knew her heart had never been into the counseling they went through when I was eight.

Still, he was the one who got remarried.

Sometimes, when I was little, I'd help my mom pick out her jewelry or clothing for a date.

"Wear the pearls," I might suggest.

"It's a clambake," she'd remind me.

"Too formal?"

"And they might scare the oysters."

One time she especially indulged me. I was eleven years old and convinced there was no fashion statement more powerful than a kilt. And so she wore a red-and-green Christmas kilt to a backyard cookout, even though it was the middle of August and the air was just plain sticky. That night my baby-sitter spent most of the time standing in front of a fan, with her T-shirt rolled up like a halter.

If I were to count, I'd guess my mom probably had five serious boyfriends in the decade between my parents' divorce and the day she met Dana. Dana had been in pre-surgical therapy for two years by then and had probably endured close to fifty hours of electrolysis. He'd been on hormone therapy for a good four or five months.

Unlike a lot of pre-op M2Fs, he wasn't trying to pass as a woman yet, he hadn't begun his transition.

Of course, he didn't tell my mom any of this--not that he should have. When they met, he was simply the professor for a film course at the university that she was taking that summer as a lark, and she was one of his students.

What was he supposed to do, say to the class, "Hi, I'm Dana, and I've spent a good part of the last year with my upper lip deadened by Novacaine"?

Or, "Good evening, I'm your professor. I'm about to start developing breasts!"

Or, if he wanted, for some reason, to be completely candid, "You folks ever met a lesbian with a penis? Have now!"

He had no idea he was going to fall in love with my mom, even when they started to date, and she had no idea she was going to fall in love with him. It just happened.

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Krista Smith-Moroziuk, June 21, 2009 (view all comments by Krista Smith-Moroziuk)
You will not be able to put this one down. Chris Bohjalian's writing is captivating. The characters come alive, and the story grips you.
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pktwig, January 4, 2009 (view all comments by pktwig)
This was my favorite pick for our book group last year. I've been a big fan of Bohalian for years, my love started with Midwives. This is definitely my favorite of his work so far. The empathy he uses to provide insight to each of the characters feelings ad reactions is a delight to read. This novel is incredibly graphic in both its detailed descriptions of surgery as well as in sexual content -but I was never offended, it felt like I was gaining insight to my own body by reading about Dana's body. Highly recommended!!
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JosephineS, January 15, 2008 (view all comments by JosephineS)
I also want to add one thing to comment when i was 10 years old i like dressing up as a girl by puting on a dress and other clothes my mother owned including high heels and, pantyhose oh yes i have clothes and, accessories of my very own today, now i'm done i said everything i wanted to say.
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Bohjalian, Chris A.
Chris Bohjalian
Bohjalian, Chris A.
New York, N.Y.
Gender identity
Divorced people
General Fiction
Literature-A to Z
fiction;transgender;gender;vermont;sexuality;trans;family;transsexual;relationships;romance;love;novel;queer;contemporary fiction
fiction;transgender;gender;vermont;sexuality;family;trans;transsexual;relationships;romance;love;novel;queer;lgbt;contemporary fiction
Edition Number:
1st paperback ed.
Edition Description:
Trade paper
Vintage Contemporaries (Paperback)
Series Volume:
no. 63
Publication Date:
August 14, 2001
Grade Level:
8.12x5.25x.91 in. .68 lbs.

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"Review" by , "Inspired....[A] highly original novel....Impossible to put down."
"Review" by , "Transsexuality goes mainstream in this Scarlet Letter for a softer, gentler but more complicated age....Bohjalian humanizes the transsexual community and explains the complexities of sex and gender in an accessible, evenhanded fashion, making a valuable contribution to a dialogue of social and political import."
"Review" by , "Bohjalian has...written an interesting [and] ultimately, a quite daring novel, and a worthy successor to Midwives. Like that novel, Trans-Sister Radio challenges readers' most dearly held notions of biological reality."
"Review" by , "Set your dial to Trans-Sister Radio for a thoughtful and provocative read, and when you want more after you finish, tune into Bohjalian's earlier books, which are as well written."
"Review" by , "Provocative and insightful, this gender-bending novel will make readers question what it means to be a man or a woman, and how strongly these identities are influenced by biological and cultural pressures."
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