Cokie Roberts ABC News/National Public Radio This wonderful book teaches us a great deal -- about history, about courage, about writing. But most of all, in reading about the parts of a life eulogists choose to remember and recount, we learn a great deal about living a well-lived life.
M. Scott Peck, M.D. author of The Road Less Traveled and Denial of the Soul An anthology of eulogies: What a marvelous concept, and brilliant in execution! Makes history come wonderfully alive. Belongs in every school and home library. I loved it.
Judith Viorst You need this book. It will absorb you, instruct you, touch you, and serve as a lifelong source of inspiration and consolation.
CONTENTSIntroduction
PART I: PUBLIC TREASURES
CHAPTER 1: THE CREATORS
Johann Sebastian Bach by William F. Buckley Jr.
Ludwig van Beethoven by Franz Grillparzer
Charlotte Brontë by William Makepeace Thackeray
Emily Dickinson by Susan Gilbert Dickinson
Walt Whitman by Robert Green Ingersoll
Rupert Brooke by Sir Ian Hamilton
Pierre-Auguste Renoir by Jean Renoir
William Butler Yeats by Wystan Hugh Auden
Flannery O'Connor by Thomas Merton
Wystan Hugh Auden by Hannah Arendt
John Hersey by Bernardine Connelly
William Stafford by Kim R. Stafford
CHAPTER 2: A NATION'S HEROES AND MARTYRS
Jeanne d'Arc by Jules Michelet
Ulysses S. Grant by Rev. Henry Ward Beecher
Jeremiah O'Donovan Rossa by Patrick Henry Pearse
Lawrence of Arabia by Sir Winston Churchill
Mahatma Mohandas K. Gandhi by Jawaharlal Nehru
Astronauts Virgil Grissom, Edward White, and Roger Chaffee by Eric Sevareid
Yitzhak Rabin by Noa Ben-Artzi Philosof
CHAPTER 3: PUBLIC SERVANTS
George Washington by Thomas Jefferson
Thomas Jefferson by Nicholas Biddle
Abraham Lincoln by Carl Sandburg
John Fitzgerald Kennedy by Sean Quinlan
Adlai Ewing Stevenson by Richard N. Goodwin
Sen. Hubert Horatio Humphrey by Eugene J. McCarthy
CHAPTER 4: REFORMERS AND RENEGADES
Henry David Thoreau by Ralph Waldo Emerson
John Peter Altgeld by Clarence S. Darrow
Eugene Victor Debs by Heywood Campbell Broun
Jane Addams by Christian Century Editorial
Eleanor Roosevelt by Adlai Ewing Stevenson
John XXIII by Leon Joseph Cardinal Suenens
Martin Buber by New York Times Editorial
Robert F. Kennedy by David Murray
Bishop James Albert Pike by William Stringfellow
Dorothy Day by Jim Forest
Cesar Estrada Chavez by Peter Matthiessen
Jessica Mitford by Molly Ivins
CHAPTER 5: WARRIORS IN THE AFRICAN-AMERICAN STORY
Daniel Webster by Rev. Theodore Parker
John Brown by John H. Finley
Abraham Lincoln by Frederick Douglass
Charles Sumner by Joseph H. Rainey
Burghardt Du Bois by W. E. B. Du Bois
The Martyred Children of Birmingham by Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
James Chaney by Fannie Lee Chaney
Malcolm X by Ossie Davis
Rev. James J. Reeb by Robert A. Reed
Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King by Robert F. Kennedy
Vernon E. Jordan Sr. by Vernon E. Jordan Jr.
James Baldwin by William Styron
Arthur Robert Ashe by New York Times Editorial
Marian Anderson by New York Times Editorial
CHAPTER 6: A NATION'S DEAD
Pericles' Funeral Oration
Lincoln's Gettysburg Address
0 Memorial Tablet by Kemal Pasha Atatürk
A Valedictory to the Unknown Soldiers of World War II by James O'Neill Jr.
Days of Remembrance by Elie Wiesel
CHAPTER 7: THE EULOGY AS SOCIAL COMMENTARY
Queen Anne of England by Sarah, Duchess of Marlboro
Voltaire by Victor Hugo
Rev. Henry Ward Beecher by Sinclair Lewis
William Jennings Bryan by H. L. Mencken
Nadezhda Mandelstam by Joseph Brodsky
Marilyn Monroe by Diana Trilling
CHAPTER 8: DEATH BE NOT SOLEMN
Riley Grannan by William Herman Knickerbocker
Ambrose Bierce by Florence King
Minnie Marx by Alexander Woollcott
Sister Beatrice of Jesus, OCD, by Sister Robin Stratton, OCD
PART II: PRIVATE LIVES
CHAPTER 9: PARENTS
Laurie Lee on His Mother, Annie Lee
Richard Seizer on His Mother, Gertrude Seizer
Betsy McCully Cooper on Her Mother, Eloise McCully Simmons
Charles Trueheart on His Father, William C. Trueheart
Michael Saltz on His Father, Jerome Saltz
Julie Houston on Her Mother, Rutheda Hunt d'Alton
Marie Harris on Her Mother, Marie Murray Harris
A Eulogy to My Unknown Father by Rosa Ordaz
Catharine A. MacKinnon on Her Father, George E. MacKinnon
David R. Cook on His Mother, Nelle Reed Cook
CHAPTER 10: CHILDREN
Susy Clemens by Mark Twain
Mary White by William Allen White
Peter Benjamin Weisman by Mary-Lou Weisman
John Conrad Jr. by John Conrad Sr.
CHAPTER 11: BROTHERS AND OTHERS
Clark Ingersoll by Robert Green Ingersoll
Alice Lee Roosevelt by Theodore Roosevelt
Amy Catherine Wells by H. G. Wells
Kitty O'Donnell Quindlen by Anna Quindlen
Roberta Marget Schultz by Madeline Marget
Francis Xavier Gallagher by Father Joseph Gallagher
CHAPTER 12: SUCH GOOD FRIENDS
James Ferrier by Robert Louis Stevenson
Mark Twain by Helen Keller
Maj. Robert Gregory by William Butler Yeats
Anne Sullivan Macy by Alexander Woollcott
Edward F. Ricketts by John Steinbeck
James Agee by John Huston
H. L. Mencken by William Manchester
Nance MacDonald by Mary McGrory
Lewis B. Puller Jr. by Sen. Bob Kerrey
Elizabeth Lyngdoh by Albert Pingree
CHAPTER 13: ANIMAL LOVES
Old Drum by George Graham Vest
Calvin by Charles Dudley Warner
Daisy by E. B. White
Coco by Vineyard Gazette Editorial
PART III: WORDS OF CONSOLATION
CHAPTER 14: WHAT DEATH MEANS
Buddha
Plato
Sir Francis Bacon
Henry David Thoreau
Kahlil Gibran
Henry Scott Holland
Rev. Henry Van Dyke
Thornton Wilder
Helen Keller
Florida Scott-Maxwell
CHAPTER 15: GRIEF DEFINED
On Sorrow by Henry James
On Overcoming Suffering by Katherine Mansfield
The Living Are Defined by Whom They Have Lost by Anna Quindlen
Grief by Julius Lester
Mothers Who Have Lost a Child by Erma Bombeck
Alex's Death by Rev. William Sloane Coffin
CHAPTER 16: LETTERS OF CONDOLENCE
Dr. Samuel Johnson
Benjamin Franklin
William Blake
James Russell Lowell
Emily Dickinson
Abraham Lincoln
Robert Louis Stevenson
Ambrose Bierce
William Dean Howells
Sir Walter Raleigh
George Bernard Shaw
T. E. Shaw (Lawrence of Arabia)
George Santayana
F. Scott Fitzgerald
Albert Einstein
Ernest Hemingway
Thornton Wilder
Rabbi Schlager
Henry Miller
William Maxwell
The Connell Family
Robert Williams
Katherine Sprinkel
CHAPTER 17: POETRY
After Great Pain, a Formal Feeling Comes, by Emily Dickinson
Musée des Beaux Arts by Wystan Hugh Auden
Dirge Without Music by Edna St. Vincent Millay
From Antony and Cleopatra by William Shakespeare
On My First Sonne by Ben Jonson
Epitaph on Elizabeth L. H. by Ben Jonson
She Dwelt Among the Untrodden Ways, by William Wordsworth
Break, Break, Break by Alfred, Lord Tennyson
Do Not Go Gentle into That Good Night by Dylan Thomas
My Grandmother in the Stars by Naomi Shihab Nye
Catullus' Ode to His Brother
Sweet Brother, If I Do Not Sleep, by Thomas Merton
To the Memory of Arthur Greeves by C. S. Lewis
We'll Go No More A-Roving, by George Gordon Lord Byron
The Soldier by Rupert Brooke
Of All This Numerous Progeny, by John Dryden
I Think Continually of Those Who Were Truly Great by Sir Stephen Spender
Death, Be Not Proud by John Donne
Be Ahead of All Parting, by Rainer Maria Rilke
You Will Never Be Alone, by William Stafford
Flesh of My Flesh by Barbara Boggs Sigmund
From "Song of Myself" by Walt Whitman
Don't Grieve by Rumi
From "A Dialogue of Self and Soul" by William Butler Yeats
God's Grandeur by Gerard Manley Hopkins
From "Vacillation" by William Butler Yeats
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