Synopses & Reviews
For the first time in its history, this American classic has been completely rewritten. Peggy Post gives us etiquette for today's times. Read by millions since the first edition was published in 1922, Emily Post the most trusted name in etiquette has always been there to help people navigate every conceivable social situation. The tradition continues with this 100 percent revised and updated edition, which covers the formal, the traditional, the contemporary, and the casual.
Based on thousands of reader questions, surveys conducted on the Emily Post Institute and Good Housekeeping Web sites, and Peggy's travels across the country, the book shows how to handle the new, difficult, unusual, and everyday situations we all encounter. The definition of etiquette a code of behavior based on thoughtfulness has not changed since Emily's day. The etiquette guidelines we use to smooth the way change all the time.
This new edition resolves hundreds of our key etiquette concerns: dealing with rudeness, netiquette, noxious neighbors, road rage, family harmony, on-line dating, cell phone courtesy, raising respectful children and teens, and travel etiquette in the post-9/11 world...to name just a few.
Emily Post's Etiquette, 17th Edition also remains the definitive source for timeless advice on entertaining, social protocol, table manners, guidelines for religious ceremonies, expressing condolences, introductions, how to be a good houseguest and host, invitations, correspondence, planning a wedding, giving a toast, and sportsmanship.
Peggy Post's advice gives us the confidence of knowing we're doing the right thing so we can relax and enjoy the moment and move more easily through our world. Emily Post's Etiquette, 17th Edition will be the resource of choice for years to come.
"Looking for the user's manual that should have come with your life? This compendium of socially acceptable responses to every conceivable opportunity for personal embarrassment or inadvertent insult is as close as you're likely to get. Post, great-granddaughter-in-law to the famous Emily, carries on the family business as a recognized authority and frequently interviewed and published author. Far from quaint, her update to the 1922 classic includes sections on how to graciously discuss a potential sex partner's past and the circumstances under which one can re-gift in good conscience. These new sections seamlessly co-exist with discussions on perennially necessary topics, such as where to place a soupspoon when setting a formal table and whether one may wear white after Labor Day (the answer is yes). This integration of new material with old, according to Post, follows the same basic principles that underlay Emily Post's original version-showing respect and consideration for others while placing a premium on honesty, graciousness and deference. The original book was considered revolutionary in its time because it recast manners from rigid Victorian rules into behavior that was based on ethics, values and common sense. This latest version isn't revolutionary, but it's useful. It also serves as a reminder of how individual choices may affect others and how easy it is to choose-words, wardrobes, gifts and actions-more wisely. At 800-plus pages, cover-to-cover reading isn't intended. This is a book best referred to like a wise old aunt who would be consulted as situations warrant. Regardless of how one consumes it, every section, from 'Dining and Entertaining' to 'You and Your Job,' tends to leave the reader feeling a bit improved for the effort and hopeful about Post's assertion that good behavior is catching-the more it is displayed, the more it spreads." Publishers Weekly (Copyright Reed Business Information, Inc.)
"Check carefully the author's witty rejoinders. With wisdom, wit, and no small amount of humility, Post carries on well the intent of her family: 'Courteous people enrich their own spirits by making other people feel good.'" Booklist
"The user's manual that should have come with your life? This is as close as you're likely to get." Publishers Weekly
"Richly encyclopedic. . .updated for our present-day lives and cyber-times. . .invaluable." O magazine
"An encyclopedic reference on all things social." Newsweek
From the most trusted name in etiquette, the first 100% revision of an American classic that has been a staple for more than 82 years. Post discusses: Today's Families, Children and Teenagers (raising well-mannered children) and Relationships (from stepfamily harmony to noxious neighbors), How to have an argument, Instant messaging etiquette, re-gifting, cell phone never-evers, travel etiquette post-9/11, tip jars, same-sex wedding ceremonies...and more!
From the most trusted name in etiquette comes the first 100 percent revised and updated edition of an American classic that has been a staple for more than 82 years. Emily Post's great-granddaughter-in-law carries on the family tradition with 20 all-new chapters on everything from netiquette to neighbors, from dating to separation and divorce. Of course, traditional etiquette is covered, as well. 0-06-620957-9$39.95 / HarperCollins Publishers
About the Author
Peggy Post represents the third generation of Post authors, the recognized authorities on etiquette. Peggy has provided etiquette advice to some of America's top corporations, drawing on a thirty-year career that has included work in the travel, banking, and relocation management industries. She writes monthly etiquette columns in Good Housekeeping and Parents, and has appeared on syndicated programs, including The Oprah Winfrey Show, Good Morning America, and Today; and in hundreds of newspapers and radio stations across the country. She is married to Emily's great-grandson, Allen, and the couple resides in Florida.