Synopses & Reviews
Love is hard. But it doesn't have to be.
Leading relationship expert and rising media personality Matthew Hussey provides what every woman needs to know to find lasting love. Offering invaluable insight into the male psyche, he will change the way you approach men and dating and give you the tools you need to find the man you deserve. Hussey answers every single woman's three most burning questions:
- Where do I go to meet good men?
- Why didn't he call?
- How do I get him to commit?
In Get the Guy, you will learn specific strategies for getting out there and meeting the best single guys. You will also learn why the guy you like has gone cold and the secrets to reigniting a spark with him. And you'll discover why so many guys seem to be afraid of long-term commitment and the three simple steps you can take that will change his mind.
Hussey also reveals why playing hard to get is a lose-lose game. A man doesn't want to endlessly chase a woman who is impossible to attain; he wants to win over a woman who is “high value." You'll find out how to create nonnegotiable standards for the way you want to be treated—and utilize a foolproof method for determining if a man can live up to them.
Leveraging what he learned from coaching thousands of men to find personal and professional success, Hussey will teach you how to meet more men, how to choose one who is worth your time, and finally, how to keep him enthralled forever. His insightfulness, irreverence, and warmth make the journey to love playful and fun, and his advice ensures success in both romance and life.
"Dating coach and TV personality Hussey (from NBC's forthcoming reality show, Ready for Love) draws from his popular relationship webinar, GetTheGuy, for this compendium of bite-sized suggestions to help women find, get, and keep 'the guy.' Sprinkled throughout are links to digital tie-ins (one directs readers to a video of Hussey demonstrating 'the look' that's meant to grab men's attention), but most of the advice is mind-numbingly bland 'Love is hard;' 'A man gets excited by the idea of having sex with a woman he desires;' and so on. Hussey does offer some practical tips he insists that 'the smallest changes in your daily rituals can yield huge results.' To that end, he explains how to 'Get Good at WAR (working a room),' instigate physical contact without coming off as aggressive, make dates more spontaneous and fun, and text a guy to hang out (I'm here doing X, 'You should come!'). Hussey occasionally goes into an absurd amount of detail as when he lists nine reasons a guy hasn't called, when a simple 'He's just not that into you' would suffice; most readers will likely deem their time better spent in some other scene. Agent: Richard Pine, Inkwell Management." Publishers Weekly Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.
“Matthew is a genius whose magic needs to be shared with the world. His incredible understanding of love and relationships makes him the absolute best love guru! This book is a necessary tool for anyone looking for love.” Eva Longoria, actor/producer
“No crazy gimmicks, no pretending to be something youre not. Just intelligent, empowering advice.” Nikki Bayley, Glamour Magazine
“Matthews methods are working… Those who would previously never dream of going up to a man are hunting them down in double figures. Phone numbers are collected like the spoils of victory… [We become] an army of women from whose charms no man is safe.” Emma Messenger, The Daily Mail
“A practical guide to understanding a mans point of view about love and romance and how a woman can optimize self-esteem and integrity to find the love she deserves.” Judith Orloff, MD, New York Times best-selling author of Emotional Freedom
“This works, period. No sugar-coating, no gimmicks, no cheesy lines: Matts advice is practical, sometimes blunt, and most importantly, effective. You WILL get the guy after reading this, end of story!” Louise Roe, fashion journalist, TV host
“If you buy this book, you have an unfair advantage over men, and thats just wrong.” Bill Rancic, entrepreneur, devoted husband
“Whether youre in a committed relationship, or youve had little luck with men, this book will unravel your man-mystery and put you in control, which seems fair to me, no matter what my husband says.” Giuliana Rancic, TV host, devoted wife
Most dating books tell you what NOT to do. Here's a book dedicated to telling you what you CAN do.
In his book, Get the Guy, Matthew Hussey—relationship expert, matchmaker, and star of the reality show Ready for Love—reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating and mating for a proven, revolutionary approach to help women to find lasting love.
Matthew Hussey has coached thousands of high-powered CEOs, showing them how to develop confidence and build relationships that translate into professional success. Many of Matthews male clients pressed him for advice on how to apply his winning strategies not to just get the job, but how to get the girl. As his reputation grew, Hussey was approached by more and more women, eager to hear what he had learned about the male perspective on love and romance.
From landing a first date to establishing emotional intimacy, playful flirtation to red-hot bedroom tips, Matthews insightfulness, irreverence, and warmth makes Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve a one-of-a-kind relationship guide and the handbook for every woman who wants to get the guy shes been waiting for.
About the Author
Matthew Hussey is one of the UK's leading authorities on relationships and the resident expert on NBC's new prime-time reality show Ready for Love. He is the creator of the Get the Guy brand, which has trained more than fifty thousand women through live seminars and reached millions worldwide through its online program and videos. He has appeared on CNN and Today, and he is the dating coach on the prime-time MTV series Plain Jane. When not traveling, Hussey splits his time between London and Los Angeles.