Synopses & Reviews
Teaching your toddler that “no means no” now can save you both suffering. But how do you say it so that hell understand?
For many parents of toddlers, saying “no” over and over becomes a mantra for exhaustion. Why is it so difficult to convey the meaning of this tiny word? Because, says pediatrician Will Wilkoff, when it comes to tots, actions speak louder than words.
Using very direct and simple guidelines, Dr. Wilkoff shows you how to develop a consistent and effective discipline plan. He explains what can go wrong with time-out and how to overcome obstacles, including your childs rebelliousness, physical space issues, and your own reluctance. He also presents helpful advice for special situations, such as how to say no at meal times, at grandmas house, and when your child is sick.
Presenting his compassionate and practical approach, Dr. Wilkoff shows how you can respond to the misbehavior of very young children while teaching them self-control that will benefit them throughout their lives. How to Say No to Your Toddler is the ideal guide for any parent who wants to take a more effective approach for raising healthy, happy children.
Synopsis
For many parents of toddlers, saying “no” over and over becomes a mantra for exhaustion. Why is it so difficult to convey the meaning of this tiny word? Because, says prominent pediatrician Will Wilkoff, actions speak louder than words when it comes to tots.
Sharing straightforward tactics that bridge the gap between an adult’s advanced logic and a child’s limited grasp of cause-and-effect, Dr. Wilkoff’s proven approach combines a consistent use of “time out” with an understanding of what causes parents to waver. In a direct, easy-to-implement style, How to Say No to Your Toddler . . . And Be Sure He Understands helps parents anticipate and overcome an impasse, determine whether their expectations are appropriate, and enhance a child’s sense of self-control and well-being for a lifetime.
Discipline requires inverse effort: The more energy parents are willing to devote to it early in a child’s life, the fewer problems the family will encounter later on. A welcome alternative to trying to “just tune it out,” Dr. Wilkoff’s expertise tackles tantrums once and for all.
About the Author
A pediatrician for more than twenty-five years, WILL WILKOFF, M.D., is the author of three previous books (most recently The Three-Month Breastfeeding Guide) and has promoted his parenting strategies on national television, including “20/20” and “The Today Show.” Dr. Wilkoff lives and practices in Brunswick, Maine.