Synopses & Reviews
Sixty-one of the most accomplished Jews in America speak intimately--most for the first time--about how they feel about being Jewish, the influence of their heritage, the weight and pride of their history, the burdens and pleasures of observance, and the moments they've felt most Jewish (or not).
About the Author
ABIGAIL POGREBIN has been a producer for Charlie Rose, Bill Moyers, and 60 Minutes—for Mike Wallace and Ed Bradley. She was a senior correspondent for Brills Content, a contributing writer for Talk magazine, and is now a free-lance journalist whose work has appeared in many magazines and newspapers. She lives in New York City with her husband and two children.
Reading Group Guide
1. What do you think Abigail Pogrebins intention was in writing this book? Did she succeed?
2. Do you think an understanding of Judaism is needed to appreciate the book? In what ways does Pogrebin make it accessible to everyone?
3. Which was your favorite interview, and why? Your least favorite?
4. Many of the people profiled changed their names-everyone from Beverly Sills to Natalie Portman. Were you surprised to find that name-changing is still happening today? Why do you think that is?
5. Several of the comedians were reluctant to acknowledge Jews contributions to humor as being greater than many ethnic groups, while others were obviously proud to pronounce it as fact. Whats your take on the Jews role in comedy?
6. Its no surprise that anti-Semitism comes up throughout the book. Have you ever experienced or witnessed anything like what you read about? How did/would you respond?
7. On page 265, Richard Meier says “If you believe you are a Jew, then you are one,” but just six pages later Ruth Reichl states that “its others definition of us that makes us Jews.” Which assessment do you favor-or do you have your own theory on what makes a Jew?
8. Tikkun Olam-repairing the world through social action-is mentioned in several of the interviews. Of all the people in the book, who do you believe best exemplifies this concept? How?
9. The majority of the interviewees are either intermarried themselves, or their parents are. Did this proportion surprise you? Were there any interviewees who you would consider to be not Jewish?
10. What did you think of the various approaches to raising Jewish children? Whose style seemed closest to your own, or to the way you were raised?
11. There was also a broad range of feelings about Israel-everything from embarrassment (Ruth Reichl) to unwavering support (Joan Rivers). Who did you identify with most closely, and why?
12. For as much as this is a book about being Jewish, the majority of the interviewees followed few of the actual laws of observance-even though they identified themselves very strongly as Jews. Do you think this is a uniquely Jewish trait, or is it something youd see with any religion?
13. Several of the interviewees-Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Ronald O. Perelman, Jason Alexander, and others-mentioned a discomfort with the role of women in Judaism. How do you feel about it?
14. In many ways, Pogrebins interview with Leon Wieseltier is the heart of the book-some of his pronouncements are especially provocative, and suggest a different way of reading the others stories. In particular, “he derides a kind of Jewish identity that might be described as Judaism Lite-an identity tied to ethnicity, not education” (page 156). Do you agree or disagree with most of what he said? Did his assertions make you re-think your reading of anyone elses interviews?
15. Contrast Wieseltiers education-insistent approach to Judaism with Max Frankels assertion that “education: learning to question” is half of whats making Jews turn away from religion (page 235).
16. In her epilogue, Pogrebin tells us that, as a result of conducting the interviews and writing the book, she has become more religious. Why do you think that is? Do you feel any different, now that youve read the book?