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The original wedding planner for gays and lesbians—now updated in light of recent legalizations of gay marriage—and as useful, witty and inspiring as ever
Fraught with logistical and social pitfalls, wedding planning is never easy—but for gay and lesbian couples, it presents unique challenges. Traditional wedding advice doesn’t address the particular issues facing same-sex spouses-to-be. With notable foresight, Tess Ayers and Paul Brown published the first edition of this book in 1994, when legal same-sex marriage was only a dream. Today, as same-sex marriage continues its state-by-state march to legality, this updated edition is more relevant and helpful than ever.
Bursting with real-life anecdotes and surprising history, this user-friendly guide covers how to share the news, structure a ceremony, and throw a great party—and tackles tough questions from “Why get married at all?” to “Which band should we book?” For any couple seeking an unforgettable wedding, this is the indispensable handbook.
The original wedding planner for gay and lesbian couples--as fun and inspiring as ever in an updated third edition!
Wedding planning is never easy--but for gay and lesbian couples, it presents unique challenges. On top of watching the budget and wrangling your family, you may be wondering: How should we word the invitations? Who can perform the ceremony? What should we say to those who ask, "...why?"
This trusty guide--first published when legal same-sex marriage was just a dream--tackles all that and more. Tess Ayers and Paul Brown explain how to get the planning out of the way so you can enjoy your special day! Here are tips on finding the perfect venue, vows, outfits, cake, kit, and caboodle, as well as:
About the Author
Tess Ayers has worked in advertising and graphic design, written for game shows, and was a producer on a number of television talk shows. When she and her partner Jane Anderson decided to have a wedding ceremony in 1992, they were unable to find a proper guide for gays and lesbians, and this book was conceived and born two years later. In the years since then Tess has been busy raising their son, now 17, and works on the boards of several not-for-profit organizations. Tess, Jane and Raphael happily divide their time between Los Angeles and Marin County.Paul Brown has a BA in theater arts from Harpur College, Binghamton University. Over the years he has worked in theater (treasured every moment), a bit in television (not so much), and a stint in “celebrity journalism” (seemed like a good idea at the time). For the past fifteen years Paul has taught Special Education in Los Angeles. He met Tess Ayers several months before her wedding over two decades ago (then called a “commitment ceremony”). When the honeymoon was over, they collaborated on the first version of this book. Currently, Paul is working on a vocabulary and reading comprehension program for students with learning differences. He has never been married himself but he sure knows how to plan a wedding.