Synopses & Reviews
How we see the world and ourselves is more important than what we see or have. Our perspectives are what matter. Classic wisdom literature has emphasized this for generations and clinical psychology has followed suit from its inception. In essence, living with a healthy perspective is truly tantamount to possessing the proverbial "psychological pearl of great price."
Knowing this, Robert J. Wicks, world-renowned psychologist and author of Bounce: Living the Resilient Life, has assembled and offered readers the most current and powerful approaches to discovering and regaining a balanced, healthy perspective that modern psychology has to offer. In Perspective, Wicks combines top research with classic wisdom, providing accessible, practical advice to his readers. In a lively tone, he guides them through strategies on:
-Understanding how the psychology of gratitude and happiness can help you perceive the beneficial things already in your life
-Seeing yourself more completely through the lens of cognitive behavioral therapy, positive psychology, and narrative therapy
-Overcoming resistances to openness so that beneficial, needed change becomes more possible
-Following a reflective regimen that can help you maintain a healthy perspective each day
Wicks reveals that gaining a healthy, positive perspective will help us become the calm within the storm. Our newfound perspective will enable us to enjoy enriching experiences, maintain balance, and reach out to others without being pulled down in the process.
Review
"Wicks's writing comes alive when he focuses on his patients and their experiences, and renders in intimate terms the warmth and faith he expresses towards his readers." --Publishers Weekly
"This is the kind of book you can't put down because it is so necessary." --Alexandra Fuller, author of Cocktail Hour Under the Tree of Forgetfulness
"As usual, [Wicks] provides a treasure-trove of thoughts, quotations, and spiritual insights which combine to make these meditations on perspective both distinctive and immensely appealing in their accessibility." --Spirituality and Practice
"Dr. Wicks unlocks the secret to achieving the fullest potential in each of us. I wish I had read this book 30 years ago and had assigned it to everyone under my command." --Mike Gould, Lieutenant General (retired), USAF, Superintendent USAF Academy, June 2009-August 2013
"Robert Wicks leads us on an inward exploration designed to foster our own personal journey toward enlightenment by opening the door to pathways for living and being that have always been there right before our eyes, but perhaps previously not readily accessible to us." --Jeffrey E. Barnett, PsyD, ABPP, Past President, Division of Psychotherapy, American Psychological Association
"This book is a lovely, clear, and inspiring read. Using personal examples combined with the insights of Eastern spiritual traditions and clinical psychology, the author guides the reader through easy-to-follow steps to develop a healthier perspective on life." --Kristin Neff, PhD, Author, Self-Compassion; Associate Professor, Human Development and Culture, Educational Psychology Department, University of Texas at Austin
"Dr. Wicks inspires the reader but more importantly challenges you to 'practice' the skills he proposes to achieve greater self-awareness and open-mindedness in managing everyday life." --M. Tish Knobf, PhD, FAAN, Professor, Yale School of Nursing
"Perspective: The Calm within the Storm is the type of gift that keeps giving. Wherever you are on your journey, this book is your perfect companion. I feel wiser and richer because of it." --Francoise Adan, MD, Medical Director, Connor Integrative Medicine Network, University Hospitals; Assistant Professor, Case Western Medical School
"An immensely helpful book bound to help people in need of healing--that is, all of us." --James Martin, SJ, Editor-at-Large of America Magazine and author of Jesus: A Pilgrimage.
"Wicks provides his readers with practical advice for regaining balance and a healthy sense of perspective during stressful situations in life. Combining wisdom and experience, Wicks aims to give a greater sense of gratitude for the little things in life." -US Catholic
Synopsis
For generations, classic wisdom literature has taught that a healthy perspective can replenish our thirst for a meaningful and rewarding life. From its inception clinical psychology has followed suit, revealing that how we see ourselves and the world is more important than what we see or have-in essence, that a healthy perspective is tantamount to possessing the psychological "pearl of great price."
Robert J. Wicks, world-renowned psychologist and author of Bounce: Living the Resilient Life, has written a powerful guide for discovering and regaining a balanced and healthy perspective. Combining classic wisdom with cutting-edge research in cognitive behavioral therapy and positive psychology, his new book, Perspective, offers concrete steps for overcoming doubt and resistance to openness, so that beneficial life changes become possible. Drawing on the psychology of mindfulness, gratitude, and happiness, Dr. Wicks also reveals how a healthy perspective makes us more aware of the beneficial things already present in our lives.
Perspective teaches us to see ourselves more completely and will inspire us to become the calm within the storm, better able to enjoy our experiences, maintain balance in our professional and personal lives, and reach out to others without being pulled down in the process.
About the Author
Robert J. Wicks received his doctorate in psychology from Hahnemann Medical College and Hospital and is on the faculty of Loyola University, Maryland. He has published more than 50 books for professionals and the general public, including
Bounce: Living the Resilient Life;
Riding the Dragon;
The Inner Life of the Counselor; and
Streams of Contentment. Dr. Wicks has lectured on the importance of resilience and possessing a healthy perspective in Hanoi, Beijing, Budapest, Belfast, and Johannesburg as well as at the Mayo Clinic, Harvard's Children's Hospital and Harvard Divinity School, Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, the U.S. Air Force Academy, and on Capitol Hill to members of Congress and their chiefs of staff. He has received the Humanitarian of the Year Award from the American Counseling Association's Division on Spirituality, Ethics, and Values and in 2006 was recipient of the first annual Alumni Award for Excellence in Professional Psychology from Widener University.
Table of Contents
The Psychological Pearl of Great Price ~ A Prologue
Psychological Portals to Experiencing: A Healthier Perspective
A Time to See: Creating Space for a More Mindful Life
Seeing Ourselves More Completely: Fathoming the Lessons of Positive Psychology and Narrative Therapy
Preventing "Spiritual Alzheimer's": Understanding the Modern Psychology of Gratitude and Happiness
Seeing in the Darkness: Appreciating the Promising Paradox of Posttraumatic Growth
Uncovering and Facing Inner Roadblocks: Overcoming Resistances to Openness and Change
The Calm within the Storm ~ An Epilogue
Appendix I: Once Through the Portals: Daily Reflections on Reinforcing a Healthy Perspective
References
Reading a Bit Further
Acknowledgments
Permissions
Index