NATIONAL ESSENCE BESTSELLER

Want to find real, committed love? The bodyguard for women's hearts reveals the minds of men in this tough-love guide to relationships.

After decades of preying on women as a pimp and a hustler, Big Boom knows all the games men play. He's now given up his player card, exposing the motivations of men and providing women with down-to-earth advice on how to create a fulfilling, loving relationship.

From sex with the ex to first dates, from the first look to the morning after, Boom leaves nothing out. His straight-talking advice exposes women's weaknesses and is invaluable to any woman determined to avoid common mistakes that lead to heartbreak.

This unique guide will show women not only how to find true love with Mr. Right, but also how to avoid Mr. Never-Gonna-Happen, Mr. Infidelity, and a variety of other Mr. Wrongs.

CONTENTS

Acknowledgments

Introduction: WHY I WROTE THIS BOOK

One BOOM'S PERSONAL MESSAGE

Two I'VE MADE MISTAKES

Three KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED

Four ASK QUESTIONS

Five GAMES PEOPLE PLAY

Six GOD WILL GET YOU!

Seven REAL WOMEN — REAL ISSUES

Eight A MAN

Nine RELATIONSHIPS

Ten MARRIAGE

Eleven MY WIVES

Twelve FAMILY

Thirteen CHILDREN

Fourteen FRIENDS

Fifteen DATING

Sixteen GOD GIVES US CHOICES

Seventeen CHANGE

Eighteen COMMUNICATION

Nineteen LOVE

Twenty CHEATING

Twenty-One CAREERS

Twenty-Two MONEY

Twenty-Three SEX

Twenty-Four DOWN LOW

Twenty-Five ETIQUETTE

Twenty-Six DRESSING RIGHT

Twenty-Seven ADVICE

Twenty-Eight FIGHTING

Twenty-Nine LEAVING

Thirty ESTEEM

Thirty-One LYING

Thirty-Two GET A LIFE

Thirty-Three DEATH

A Final Word About Boom 191

Appendix: QUESTIONS WOMEN SHOULD ASK MEN