Synopses & Reviews
Find Yourself by Helping Others—Life Lessons from an Extraordinary Story of Sacrifice and Survival
In the winter of 1939, five-year-old Andrew Bienkowski was exiled to Siberia with his family. The two years of struggle that followed—especially his grandfathers amazing act of sacrifice during their first long, cold winter—have informed the rest of Andrews life. Thanks to his devoted mother, his quick-witted grandmother, and the unexpected kindness of strangers, Andrew established an approach to life that emphasizes helping others as the essential path to finding our greatest human fulfillment.
Review
“What we make of the adversities with which life inevitably confronts us determines whether we have anything useful to say to those who follow us. Andrew Bienkowski passes the test with this extraordinary story of his childhood exile to Siberia and the lessons he learned there about loyalty, perseverance, gratitude, and love.”
—from the foreword by Gordon Livingston, MD
“Reading this book is truly a gift to oneself—a profound and riveting experience that kept me up into the late hours following a journey both immensely provocative and transformative. Andrew Bienkowski gives fully of himself in this book with a power that brings forth a spirit of healing so important at this time in our world. I'm already recommending this to everyone I know.”
—Stephan Rechtschaffen, MD, co-founder, Omega Institute and Blue Spirit Costa Rica
“I was touched by this story of courage and sacrifice, blended with gems of wisdom reflecting the author's many years as a psychotherapist. I found myself highlighting many excellent points throughout its pages.”
—Dan Millman, author of Way of the Peaceful Warrior
“One Life to Give is a compelling and heartwarming saga that will inspire, uplift, and move you to appreciate your loved ones and consider what you can contribute rather than get. Andrew Bienkowski brings a lifetime of experience as a soulful therapist to his account, and for that I am deeply grateful. Anyone who values family, or feels disconnected from loved ones, would benefit immensely from this extraordinary book and the powerful, practical lessons it bestows.”
—Alan Cohen, author of Linden's Last Life
“Like Viktor Frankls 1946 classic Mans Search for Meaning, this book has a keen eye for spotting the best of human spirit and endeavor in the most trying of circumstances.”
—ForeWord magazine
“Shows the importance of hope and community. It is a definite light for dark times.”
—Western New York Catholic
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'Like Viktor Frankl"s 1946 classic
Man"s Search for Meaning, this book has a keen eye for spotting the best of human spirit and endeavor in the most trying of circumstances.'
--ForeWord magazine --ForeWord magazine
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'Shows the importance of hope and community. It is a definite light for dark times.'
--Western New York Catholic --Western New York Catholic
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'What we make of the adversities with which life inevitably confronts us determines whether we have anything useful to say to those who follow us. Andrew Bienkowski passes the test with this extraordinary story of his childhood exile to Siberia and the lessons he learned there about loyalty, perseverance, gratitude, and love.'
--from the foreword by Gordon Livingston, MD --Gordon Livingston, MD
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'I was touched by this story of courage and sacrifice, blended with gems of wisdom reflecting the author's many years as a psychotherapist. I found myself highlighting many excellent points throughout its pages.'
--Dan Millman, author of Way of the Peaceful Warrior --Dan Millman
Review
'Reading this book is truly a gift to oneself--a profound and riveting experience that kept me up into the late hours following a journey both immensely provocative and transformative. Andrew Bienkowski gives fully of himself in this book with a power that brings forth a spirit of healing so important at this time in our world. I'm already recommending this to everyone I know.'
--Stephan Rechtschaffen, MD, co-founder, Omega Institute and Blue Spirit Costa Rica --Stephan Rechtschaffen, MD
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'
One Life to Give is a compelling and heartwarming saga that will inspire, uplift, and move you to appreciate your loved ones and consider what you can contribute rather than get. Andrew Bienkowski brings a lifetime of experience as a soulful therapist to his account, and for that I am deeply grateful. Anyone who values family, or feels disconnected from loved ones, would benefit immensely from this extraordinary book and the powerful, practical lessons it bestows.'
--Alan Cohen, author of Linden's Last Life --Alan Cohen
Synopsis
In the winter of 1939, five-year-old Andrew Bienkowski was banished to Siberia with his family. With virtually nothing to see them through their first winter, his grandfather chose to starve in order to give his family the chance to survive. The years that followed were harrowing and difficult -- but warmed by the generosity and quick-wittedness of his mother and grandmother, the kindness of strangers, and the beauty of the landscape, Andrew's childhood in Siberia established his essential approach to life. Having survived the two-year period of exile, Andrew Bienkowski became inspired to give back, devoting his life to helping others through his work as a psychologist for the state of New York. With "One Life to Give," Andrew Bienkowski underscores how the greatest fulfillment we can achieve as human beings lies in helping others.
Synopsis
In the winter of 1939, five-year-old Andrew Bienkowski was exiled to Siberia with his family. The two years of struggle that followed--especially his grandfather's amazing act of sacrifice during their first long, cold winter--have informed the rest of Andrew's life. Thanks to his devoted mother, his quick-witted grandmother, and the unexpected kindness of strangers, Andrew established an approach to life that emphasizes helping others as the essential path to finding our greatest human fulfillment.
About the Author
Andrew Bienkowski, a veteran of the U.S. Air Force who served in the Korean War, worked as a psychologist for 40 years, including 32 years for New York state, designing and implementing mental-health programs and working directly with patients. This is his first book. He lives near Buffalo, New York.Mary Akers's fiction, poetry, and non-fiction have appeared in many journals and anthologies. She is the author of a short story collection, Women Up On Blocks, from Press 53. Although raised in the Blue Ridge Mountains of Virginia, which she will always call home, she currently lives in western New York.