Synopses & Reviews
Are men from Mars and women from Venus? No. The earth is in fact the home base for both sexes. So why are we so different? Because God created us that way. Men and women were created with radically different ways of thinking, feeling, and perceiving. But when we check the Bible, we see that God never intended these differences to create the incredible friction they do in today. The good news is that God has already woven into His Word the perfect solution to this friction.
Pastor, author, and conference speaker H. Dale Burke's book, Different By Design, is aimed at exposing the myth that men and women are too different to live in harmony. He contends that God's master plan includes harmony between men and women in marriage. When the inevitable struggles come into a relationship, Burke states that we need heavenly, down-to-earth biblical guidance for building healthy relationships.We all want to build stronger relationships, whether we're single, dating, married or passing along advice to grandkids. Different By Design provides an excellent framework within which to achieve that goal. Our differences do not surprise God. He wired us. He understands. He loves us. And He provides us with a map to navigate these tricky waters.
Review
A thoughtful, relevant approach to one of the thorniest problems in marriage today.-Dennis Rainey, executive director, Family Life
I love this book! I want all my kids and grandkids to read it . . . and all my friends. Dale Burke uses humor along with spiritual insights to help us understand that differences between guys and gals don't mean something bad.
-Barbara Johnson, author and conference speaker
Dale Burke's biblically-based wisdom on working through differences can help any couple who sometimes feel like they're speaking two different languages--or living in two different worlds. Cindy and I loved this book, and you will too.
-John Trent, Ph.D., president, Encouraging Words and Strongfamilies.com
This is a liberating book, full of insight and sure to bring healing and direction to many Christian marriages.
-Bruce A. Ware, Ph.D., president, Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood
Synopsis
Men and women think, feel, and perceive things so differently that sometimes it can cause serious friction. The good news is that God made us the way we are for a purpose. Different by Design gives down-to-earth guidance for building healthy relationships.
About the Author
H. DALE BURKE (Marshall University; Dallas Theological Seminary) is the senior pastor of First Evangelical Free Church of Fullerton in California. Prior to assuming the pastorate in Fullerton, Pastor Burke served for over ten years as the first senior pastor of a church in Oxford, Ohio. Apart from his weekly ministry in the pulpit of the Fullerton church, Pastor Burke enjoys writing and speaking to a variety of audiences in the U.S. and abroad. He is author of Take Back Your Life!, How to Lead and Still Have a Life, Different by Design, and A Love that Never Fails. Dale and his wife, Becky, have been married over 35 years and have three grown children and a grandson.
Table of Contents
1. Off to a (Somewhat) Heavenly Start
2. Seven Gifts That Bring Our Worlds Together
3. The "e;Universe-all"e; Equalizer: A Servant's Heart
4. How Do Men Say "e;I Love You"e;?
5. How Do Women Say "e;I Love You"e;?
6. What We Have Here Is a Failure to Communicate!
7. Grace: Forgiveness Offered, Forgiveness Received
8. Marriage: Routine Maintenance Required
9. What Do You Mean When You Say "e;I Do"e;?
10. Love and Marriage