Synopses & Reviews
In her upbeat new “rules” for finding lasting love, Dr. Georgia Witkin shows that the secret to dating without all the pain is to assume that you are perfectly lovable exactly as you are. When a good date goes bad, the problem is never you. It’s him!
Suddenly dating is so simple. You will never again ask “why didn’t he call?” It doesn’t matter. You will never ask, “How should I change?” You don’t have to. Instead you will do what you want, go where you want, wear what you want, and it will only make you more perfect. You will take everything dates say and do as information about them—not you. You will have zero tolerance when you’re getting zero. You will feel happy, in control, and actually enjoy dating again. And before too long, the new you will fall wildly in love with a man who is just perfect enough to find you irresistible.
This book will make dating fun again—and help you find the love you always dreamed of.
“Why is this book for single women? Because we think about relationships, and talk about relationships, much more than single men do. And when things go wrong, we’re also much more likely to blame ourselves! We ask ourselves, “What’s wrong with me?” “What did I do?” “What should I have done differently?” Well, maybe, just maybe you are not the problem. Maybe, just maybe, you’d still be single even if you were perfect. Maybe the men you’re meeting have the problems. Maybe it’s not you, it’s him!
Actually, there’s no maybe about it. Your aunt in Florida, your married brother, and your gym friends are wrong—you are not single because you’re too picky, too pushy, or a princess. Besides, even if you were, picky, pushy princesses get married every day. And so will you. So let’s get real and get you the life you want.”
--Dr. Georgia Witkin, from…
It’s Not You, It’s Him
Synopsis
It’s Not You, It’s Him is for every single woman who wonders why she’s not married. While your mother (or another dating book) might tell you that you’re too pushy, too picky, or a princess, Dr. Georgia Witkin knows that picky, pushy women get married all the time. (And so will you.) If your relationships are bogging down in no-commitment-land, the reason isn’t you; it’s the men you’re dating. It’s not you, it’s him!
Here is a straight-talking guide to dating without all the pain. Armed with Dr. Witkin’s wisdom, women will finally realize that they are perfect and that bad relationships only happen because men, sadly, are not. Once you know that he’s imperfect, you realize that whatever happens on a date doesn’t say anything about you—it only gives you information about him.
When you date Dr. Witkin’s way, you will never again ask, “Why didn’t he call?” Instead you will do what you want, go where you want, wear what you want, and it will only make you more perfect. You’ll learn when Mr. Not Quite is Mr. Not Right and why there is really no such thing as “just friends.” And in the end, you will fall wildly in love with a man who is just perfect enough to find you perfectly lovable.
About the Author
GEORGIA WITKIN is director of The Stress Program at New York’s Mt. Sinai Medical Center, where she is an assistant clinical professor of psychiatry. She is also weekly contributor to the Fox News Channel’s Fox Magazine show and news analyst on the Fox and Friends morning program. She lives in New York City.