Synopses & Reviews
This book covers a wide range of topics (see TOC below) but its true strength comes from the author's 'sneaky' approach. Unlike Ulysses' 'Sexy Bitch' books which are edgy and in your face, Dr Pam Spurr presents her advice in a softer, friendlier tone that it is very approachable for a mainstream American woman. A 'good girl' can read the book without leaving her comfort zone. Yet the advice leads the 'good girl' into the area of 'bad girl' pleasures and techniques. That is the author's magic. Take the reader from an area where she feels safe and lead her to new areas that will make her a better lover and enjoy sex more while also building a stronger relationship that is more personally rewarding. With the focus always on building the woman's own self-confidence.
Synopsis
In light of constantly changing attitudes and expectations, relationships are more complicated than ever. The simple days of "Should I or shouldn't I?" or "When should I?" have come and gone. Now it is "What things should I do?" "What will he think if I ask for this?" and "Do I even like him outside the bedroom?" With so many women feeling confused and uncertain in matters of sex, dating, and maintaining relationships, this book's no-nonsense approach and timely advice will prove invaluable.
In bite-sized sections, the author explains how to develop sexual techniques, practice safer sex, and be a more creative lover. She then ventures beyond the bedroom and offers practical suggestions on meeting men, enjoying dates, and strengthening a committed relationship. The author shows how to alleviate the fear of maintaining independence while building a healthy relationship and how to feel fulfilled whether single or partnered.