Synopses & Reviews
After her fathers death, Nancy K. Miller discovered a minuscule family archive: a handful of photographs, an unexplained land deed, a postcard from Argentina, unidentified locks of hair. These items had been passed down again and again, but what did they mean? Miller follows their traces from one distant relative to the next, across the country, and across an ocean. Her story, unlike the many family memoirs focused on the Holocaust, takes us back earlier in history to the world of pogroms and mass emigrations at the turn of the twentieth century.
Searching for roots as a middle-aged orphan and an assimilated Jewish New Yorker, Miller finds herself asking unexpected questions: Why do I know so little about my family? How can I understand myself when I dont know my past? The answers lead her to a carpenter in the Ukraine, a stationery peddler on the Lower East Side, and a gangster hanger-on in the Bronx. As a third-generation descendant of Eastern European Jews, Miller learns that the hidden lives of her ancestors reveal as much about the present as they do about the past. In the end, an odyssey to uncover the origins of her lost family becomes a memoir of renewal.
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“An illuminating and instructive example of how to conduct a genealogical investigation. But it is also a rich and accomplished family chronicle, full of fascinating incidents and turbulent emotions. Above all, it is a searing work of self-exploration, artful and eloquent in the telling but heartbreaking in its candor.”—Jonathan Kirsch, JewishJournal.com Jonathan Kirsch
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“This is an unusual memoir and one well worth reading. Who knows—this book might encourage the reader to discover the source of his or her own mysterious life artifacts.”—Naomi Kramer, Jewish Book World JewishJournal.com
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“This marvelous memoir pinpoints the elusive phenomenon whereby memories get through to our consciousness and how they ultimately influence our lives. Capturing moments of transformation is what happens over and over in an adept memoir like What They Saved.”—Judy Bolton-Fasman, Jerusalem Post Naomi Kramer - Jewish Book World
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“[Millers book] confirms the importance of personal narrative, perhaps modernitys most recognizable voice, in framing and accepting the losses and the uncertainties of that experience.”—Joanne Jacobson, Jewish Daily Forward Judy Bolton-Fasman - Jerusalem Post
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“[Miller] found a small family archive among the possessions left to her after both her parents had died. Why so few? What do they mean? Why were these ones saved? A journey about what we can find and what is lost from life to life.”—Margaret Heilbrun, Library Journal Joanne Jacobson - Jewish Daily Forward
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“[Miller] writes thoughtfully about her efforts to piece together a familys story of dislocation, success, and broken links, and of how, in the process, Miller reconnected with Jewish history and traditions.”—
Publishers Weekly Margaret Heilbrun - Library Journal
Synopsis
Winner of the 2012 Jewish Journal Book Prize
After her father s death, Nancy K. Miller discovered a minuscule family archive: a handful of photographs, an unexplained land deed, a postcard from Argentina, unidentified locks of hair. These items had been passed down again and again, but what did they mean? Miller follows their traces from one distant relative to another, across the country, and across an ocean. Her story, unlike the many family memoirs focused on the Holocaust, takes us back earlier in history to the world of pogroms and mass emigrations at the turn of the twentieth century.
Searching for roots as a middle-aged orphan and an assimilated Jewish New Yorker, Miller finds herself asking unexpected questions: Why do I know so little about my family? How can I understand myself when I don t know my past? The answers lead her to a carpenter in the Ukraine, a stationery peddler on the Lower East Side, and a gangster hanger-on in the Bronx. As a third-generation descendant of Eastern European Jews, Miller learns that the hidden lives of her ancestors reveal as much about the present as they do about the past. In the end, an odyssey to uncover the origins of her lost family becomes a memoir of renewal. "
About the Author
Nancy K. Miller is distinguished professor of English and comparative literature at the Graduate Center of the City University of New York. She is the author or editor of more than a dozen books, most recently But Enough About Me: Why We Read Other Peoples Lives and Bequest and Betrayal: Memoirs of a Parents Death.