Synopses & Reviews
It’s breathtaking to watch someone with charisma enter a room. The sound of their voice and their mere presence seem to have a captivating effect on everyone around them. It’s as if an invisible field of energy surrounds them, mesmerizing others like a magical spell.Your career, your relationships, and your income are all related to your ability to radiate this mysterious trait. But what is charisma? Is it something with which only a lucky charismatic few are born? Or is it something that can be learned?
Much more than simply charm, likability, presence, or passion, charisma allows you to build rapport instantly, inspire others, and influence them to your way of thinking, all while putting them at ease. In The Laws of Charisma, Kurt W. Mortensen, one of America’s leading authorities on persuasion and influence, reveals the specific skills, traits, and attributes associated with charisma that you can learn, develop, and master.
Filled with practical, powerful tools, exercises, and assessments, The Laws of Charisma enables you to:
• Get others to believe in you, trust you, and want to be influenced by you.
• Emanate energy, conviction, and assurance.
• Energize everyone around you with your enthusiasm, passion, and expectations.
• Learn the eye contact and listening skills that will enable you to communicate effectively without speaking.
• Leverage self-discipline and willpower to get what you want effortlessly while riding a wave of goodwill.
• Gain people’s trust by creating powerful images through storytelling.
• Win contagious cooperation from even the unlikeliest of allies.
• Get others to not only want to do what you want them to do…but beg you to do it, like doing it, and tell all their friends that they should be doing it too!
Each chapter of The Laws of Charisma presents one of the thirty critical skills or traits essential to this enigmatic and powerful characteristic so often associated with those who are successful, well liked, and happy. The book provides both current and historical examples of how each component can be and has been used, how you can apply each one in your own life in any circumstance, and common blunders to watch out for. Mortensen also provides quotes that offer insight on each area of charisma, and in each chapter supplies you with a special Charisma Key that gives you something concrete that you can do and apply right away.
We all know charismatic people. They command our attention and we hang on their every word. Just meeting them makes us feel better. Imagine your success in life once you develop the ability to ride that same wave of positivity, momentum, and goodwill. The Laws of Charisma will give you the practical guidance, wisdom, and confidence to transform yourself and your entire life.
KURT W. MORTENSEN is one of America’s leading authorities on persuasion, motivation, and influence. A highly sought-after consultant, trainer, seminar leader, and speaker, he is the author of Maximum Influence and Persuasion IQ. He can be found online at www.lawsofcharisma.com and www.kurtmortensen.com.
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"...it's well written, makes great and good sense, and has much to offer financial professionals. It doesn't just deal with common sense, although there's plenty of that, it gets into the science of human interaction..." --Life Insurance Selling
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"This is an excellent self-help hardback which will aid in the pursuit of being more successful. Many books attempt to improve people's lives, but what makes this book outstanding is the manner in which it approaches those elements that can improve managerial skills, better customer relations, and the foundation to persuade in a positive way. Follow the simple lessons and you can't help but improve your career and interpersonal relationships. The Laws of Charisma is highly recommended." --Clark Isaacs, syndicated "Clark's Eye on Books" columnist
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"Follow the simple lessons and you can't help but improve your career and interpersonal relationships...highly recommended." --Clark's Eye on Books
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"...kind of a book which you simply can’t put down until you’ve read it all. And at the end expect your Charisma quotient to rise by at least 50 percent." --Career Bright
Synopsis
Some people have the ability to enter a room and draw instant attention, effortlessly exuding charm, radiating energy and a commanding presence. That enviable quality is called charisma…and those who have it are better able to influence what gets done and ultimately achieve what they want. To some extent, it’s innate—but with a few simple principles anyone can develop a more charismatic and compelling presence.
Filled with practical, powerful tools, exercises, and assessments, The Laws of Charisma explores the vital skills and traits anyone can use to earn trust, generate interest, and motivate others. Focusing on the four core elements of charisma, this book shows readers how to:
• Radiate confidence, passion, power, and optimism.
• Combine purpose, creativity, competence, and focus to inspire commitment.
• Influence others by improving communication skills.
• Persuade and empower anyone by creating instant rapport.
Charisma is the key that will unlock the door to improved relationships, greater income…and enhanced success in every area of life. The Laws of Charisma is all anyone needs to bring out the charismatic person within.
Synopsis
Some people have the ability to enter a room and draw instant attention, effortlessly exuding charm, radiating energy and a commanding presence. That enviable quality is called charisma…and those who have it are better able to influence what gets done and ultimately achieve what they want. To some extent, it’s innate—but with a few simple principles anyone can develop a more charismatic and compelling presence.
Filled with practical, powerful tools, exercises, and assessments, The Laws of Charisma explores the vital skills and traits anyone can use to earn trust, generate interest, and motivate others. Focusing on the four core elements of charisma, this book shows readers how to:
• Radiate confidence, passion, power, and optimism.
• Combine purpose, creativity, competence, and focus to inspire commitment.
• Influence others by improving communication skills.
• Persuade and empower anyone by creating instant rapport.
Charisma is the key that will unlock the door to improved relationships, greater income…and enhanced success in every area of life. The Laws of Charisma is all anyone needs to bring out the charismatic person within.
Synopsis
Charisma is the key that will unlock the door to improved relationships, greater income, and enhanced success in every area of your life. Focusing on the four core elements of this powerful (and often misunderstood) quality—The Laws of Charisma shows you how to:
• Radiate confidence, passion, power, and optimism
• Combine purpose, creativity, competence, and focus to inspire commitment
• Influence others by sharpening your communication skills
• Create the kind of instant rapport that will persuade and empower anyone.
Filled with easy-to-apply practical guidance, helpful self-assessment tools, and encouragement throughout, this book gives you everything you need to bring out the enviably charismatic person that you’ve always had within you.
Praise for Previous Books by Kurt W. Mortensen
Persuasion IQ: The 10 Skills You Need to Get Exactly What You Want
“Simultaneously useful and entertaining, this book is a thought-provoking examination into developing a vital talent.” — Publishers Weekly
“Kurt Mortensen’s book Persuasion IQ [is] a terrific read and a sure-fire way to improve and enhance your powers of persuasion. This easy-to-read book reveals how you can change minds, influence others, and reach your ultimate goals!” — Larry King, host of CNN’s Larry King Live!
“As an entrepreneur, my business relies on the skills learned from Kurt Mortensen in his bestselling book, Maximum Influence. In his new book, Persuasion IQ, Kurt has hit another grand slam! His ‘10 obstacles that limit your persuasion success’ alone will be invaluable to your personal and business success.” — G. William Barnett II, author of the bestselling book Are You Dumb Enough to Be Rich?
“I am one of Kurt Mortensen’s biggest fans and love all his teachings! His new book Persuasion IQ is brilliant and a must-read for success! Everyone is in sales, and Persuasion IQ really gives people the tools and skills to cultivate their natural abilities to be better communicators, salespeople, managers, and entrepreneurs. I have studied persuasion a long time and I think that Kurt Mortensen is the best of the best! — Lee Milteer, Millionaire Smarts™ Coach, author of Success Is an Inside Job
Maximum Influence: The 12 Universal Laws of Power Persuasion
“The most complete work on persuasion and influence I have ever read.” — Robert G. Allen, author of Nothing Down and Multiple Streams of Income
“A powerful tool for those in sales, for those wishing to influence a boss, or for those wanting others to ‘do different.’” — The Roanoke Times
About the Author
KURT W. MORTENSEN is one of America’s leading authorities on persuasion, motivation, and influence. A highly sought-after consultant, trainer, seminar leader, and speaker, he is the author of Maximum Influence and Persuasion IQ.
Table of Contents
CONTENTS
Acknowledgments
Introduction
SECTION ONE PRESENCE:
WHAT DO YOU RADIATE?
Chapter 1 PASSION:
The Transfer of Pure Energy
Chapter 2 CONFIDENCE:
Conviction Is Contagious
Chapter 3 CONGRUENCE:
Actions Versus Intention
Chapter 4 OPTIMISM:
Adjust Attitudes
Chapter 5 POSITIVE POWER:
Force Is Not Charisma
Chapter 6 ENERGY AND BALANCE:
Vibrant Well-Being
Chapter 7 HUMOR AND HAPPINESS:
It Comes from Within
SECTION TWO CORE QUALITIES:
THE INSIDE DICTATES THE OUTSIDE
Chapter 8 SELF-DISCIPLINE:
Willpower Equals Commitment
Chapter 9 COMPETENCE:
What You Don’t Know Will Hurt You
Chapter 10 INTUITION:
Follow Your Instinct
Chapter 11 PURPOSE:
Tapping into Unlimited Drive
Chapter 12 INTEGRITY:
Character Counts
Chapter 13 COURAGE:
Stand Up and Be Counted
Chapter 14 CREATIVITY:
Tap Your Imagination
Chapter 15 FOCUS:
Activity Does Not Equal Accomplishment
SECTION THREE DELIVERY AND COMMUNICATION:
SPEAK WITH CONVICTION
Chapter 16 PRESENTATION SKILLS:
Educate, Inspire, and Entertain
Chapter 17 PEOPLE SKILLS:
Do They Really Like You?
Chapter 18 INFLUENCE:
Help Others Persuade Themselves
Chapter 19 STORYTELLING:
Create the Image
Chapter 20 EYE CONTACT:
Conversing Without Speaking
Chapter 21 LISTENING:
Say What?
Chapter 22 RAPPORT:
The Instant Connection
SECTION FOUR EMPOWERING OTHERS:
CONTAGIOUS COOPERATION
Chapter 23 INSPIRATION:
Strengthen and Energize
Chapter 24 ESTEEM:
Understand the Ego
Chapter 25 CREDIBILITY:
Reality Versus Perception
Chapter 26 MOTIVATION:
Light Their Fire
Chapter 27 GOODWILL:
Charity and Compassion
Chapter 28 VISION:
See It, Taste It, Touch It, Feel It
Chapter 29 EMPATHY:
Compassion Creates Friendship
Chapter 30 RESPECT:
Give It to Get It
SECTION FIVE SUBCONSCIOUS TRIGGERS:
IT JUST FEELS RIGHT—OR WRONG
Chapter 31 VERBAL PRESENTATION:
It Is How You Say It
Chapter 32 NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION:
Gestures Trump Words
Chapter 33 EMOTIONAL STATES:
Understanding Feelings and Moods
Chapter 34 PHYSICAL APPEARANCE:
Judge Not (Yeah, Right!)
Chapter 35 HOW YOU REPEL PEOPLE:
Don’t Drive Them Away
Conclusion
What’s Next?
Research
Index